@attachmentbro: What’s the one move you make when feeling insecure that usually backfires in your relationships?

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jessicahines23
Jessica Hines :
Not to mention the physical side effects, elevated heart rate, restless legs, stomach ache, racing thoughts
2026-05-05 14:14:37
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iamkiragu
Janelle🦋🇩🇪🇰🇪 :
Then I suddenly want a break up because that gives me certainty
2026-05-21 08:22:50
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lilithzombiex
𝕷𝖎𝖑𝖎𝖙𝖍 𝕮𝖗𝖔𝖜 🐦‍⬛ :
I don’t understand how that is the focus if they want to fix it right away what’s the problem? So being an avoidant is ok emotionally abandoning someone is fine but someone that wants to fix it right away is the problem makes no sense
2026-04-30 22:15:35
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makemeupash
Ashley Welden :
Whoopsie you are describing me
2026-04-27 00:16:57
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jaden.calig
jaden.calig :
This is also how borderlines think
2026-06-08 17:15:05
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allyson_spam_1
Pete’s_spamaccount :
I literally thought I was just crazy didn’t realize it’s called an anxious attachment style
2026-06-15 16:40:14
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auntkissy33
Kristie :
Boy that made me want to cry. This is exactly how I feel and it’s so hard to not be that way.
2026-04-28 19:59:47
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kelly.lehman59
KELLY LEHMAN :
No, scripture says not to let the sun go down on your anger. It's a loving thing to work out your disagreements.
2026-04-30 20:44:27
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kendra.rane
Kendra Vreeland :
I don’t call it crazy I call it passion
2026-04-28 14:46:18
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xghostinthegardenx
xghostinthegardenx :
Uhhmmm… Going to bed angry with a partner is generally advised against because it can cause stress, impair sleep quality, and foster long-term resentment rather than resolving conflict. Unresolved arguments often consolidate in memory during sleep, making anger feel stronger the next day and eroding emotional intimacy.
2026-05-01 12:27:00
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kinglemonade
sunshine :
i can’t tell if it anxious attachment or the thought that life is short why go to bed mad? why not fix the problem before we go to sleep beside each other angry idk it just doesn’t feel right to start a new day on bad footing, pls thought?
2026-05-10 01:38:51
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moey.xox
Morgan Nicole :
You didn’t hold my hand😭
2026-04-30 01:22:29
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coraashly
zorita🤍 :
nah. its someone taking space but not communicating it. you can legit just say "im taking space. lets talk tomorrow. I still choose you. im not going anywhere." that will legit calm their fears and give u space.
2026-06-09 08:58:13
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gothikoafantasy
Gothikoa Fantasy :
My issue is you can take the space you need but after 24 hours of silence it's not a conversation anymore and it's avoiding the problem.
2026-05-01 15:03:13
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emily_magnotti03
Emily_Magnotti :
Great until that insulting ending!
2026-05-31 14:46:49
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wtvr77
Hec :
this app used to be about dances 😭
2026-05-19 16:59:36
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enolaxwalker
enola🫶🏼 :
its 4:30 am rn and going thru this exact thing
2026-06-03 03:38:58
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keylinlarson1
Keylin (Gods kid) :
Anxious attached people: SELF SOOTHE BEFORE YOU END UP SELF SABOTAGING
2026-05-02 01:21:55
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viviansteve253
viviansteve253 :
Can you please not talk about me like this
2026-04-29 20:09:22
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andydub21
andydub21 :
You can go to bed, you need to learn how to self assure, and soothe yourself 💜 you’ve got this anxiously attached person you can become secure but it takes a lot of being honest with yourself that it isn’t their job to reassure you it’s yours
2026-05-01 02:03:09
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taylertheslayer_
Tayler Hinkle988 :
Dang it
2026-04-27 23:36:27
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silvernuova
Silvernova115 :
have to fight these urge and remember one moment doesnt define a relationship if it healthy. if they leave you off one moment, it was never meant to be.
2026-05-09 01:24:42
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johnrlmcnabb
johnrlmcnabb :
avoidants are abusers
2026-06-20 03:05:09
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tessabottelberghe
Tessa Bottelberghe :
I just had this. currently want to go habe talk right now. I can't keep going until this is talked about. in relationship with avoidant. its so hard even though I him so much I cant handle this back n forth. feeling used ect.......
2026-06-11 01:08:34
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