@adrianmarkovac: 8 modern relationship myths #relationships #relationshipadvice #modernsociety #dating #unlockyourpastpresentandfuture

Faith_aidan :

“If they wanted they would “ you got it all wrong it means you don’t have to ask a million times for something others do it in one call, if he wanted to remember your birthday he would, if wanted to remember things you like he would, cuz people shows up for the things that matters to him them.

Liam 🔱 :

anyway... look at what my gf got me

Frosty_slothy :

I don’t think your right with this one bro

Billion Home Designers :

for number 1, a wise man once said: "Unspoken expectations are premeditated resentments"

Ahmad :

how bro felt

starr :

no.1 misinterpreted

Khloe Japusito :

but when people say "if they wanted to they would" they mean small things like communicating, being there stuff u don't need to tell someone to do 😕

Adam :

Čäsã💋błanća :

The internet has ruined romance💔

Bianca :

“If they wanted to they would” means if you’ve already explained your boundaries then they will not cross them. If they care they won’t outright disrespect you or mistreat you. If they care, they’ll show it.

nisaslover🫀💌 :

"yes guards, protect him"

boi.like_ricch :

Maturity is when you realize all these are true

sht.dentaa :

Can i repost and like this twice?😭😭

7enR (Sevenaire) :

Thank you so much my brother

Piryon collection :

Building my fyp

Prince.O.Prince :

You did great bro

gummy_says :

Thanks for calling me out Adrian

LANEEZ  ! :

Yeah but I told them what I wanted and still ain’t shit change so it’s if they wanted to they would if they cared enough to do better.

Daniel :

I see lots of people saying He misunderstood or miss interpreted most of what he said but truth is thats just his own perspective on it and its not wrong either just because you haven’t looked at it from his own perspective. Also it doesn’t mean yours is wrong either. For example: The “If they wanted to they would” have two perspectives yours and the owner of this video’s own, and they are both correct. Yes if someone loves you they will actually go out their way for you, so “if they wanted to” in that context is correct. From The creator of this video perspective, Sometimes people want to do things for you, they want to give you the best life but they cant, why? Because they dont have the money to or just life, but they actually wanted to, life just didn’t allow it. So yeah He isnt wrong neither are you. Be open and read more you’ll see that life always have different meanings but it doesn’t mean another is wrong especially if its from your POV📖

LBBK :

do you believe in Jesus Christ? 🙏🏼

𝒙⋆𝒐 :

this man made me agree 100% with him!!!

Sandy :

I agree with everything 👍👍👍. Relationship is learning, unlearning and growing.

ott :

People are saying "oh you misinterpreted the first one." No, no thats false. The first one is an unconscious volley to your partner that they wont know what to hit, and then when it isnt hit you get upset. Yall are referencing it as something AFTER you already said something. This is not what it means, the "if they wanted to they would" is about as cut and dry as you can make it. If you really want something to say, say "if they know they will." Here's an example: I've been dating my gf for over 7 years now (been together since high school, saving up for a great proposal so leave me be lol). I grew up in a household where we werent bonded at the hip, in fact it promoted more "me time" and "alone time" than most households. Neither good nor bad, just a fact. My gf was raised the exact opposite. So, I would have instances where I would be okay not seeing her for a week or two even though we'd call or text. (Not the same school and we live in different states.) Wasn't anything malicious it was just not something I learned. And she got upset, questioning if I actually liked spending time with her to which I thought was ridiculous to ask but to any sane person, they'd also ask the same question. However, it took a while to realize why and what I was doing, and after she explained she wanted to spend more quality time with me and how what I did made her feel unwanted, I changed my habits and changed myself for the better. If she never said anything, I wouldve lived like it was normal because that WAS my normal. All in all, there are even some basic things that you may just have to be like "hey I like this" or "could we do this more." and if anything out of their mouth is other than "im sorry, yes maam/sir" then you ahould reconsider the relationship. I dont assume maliciousness unless proven otherwise, I dont like to demonize people as its very dangerous, so give your partner some slack. Im grateful I have someone who's willing to call me out, because I think theres less and less of that nowadays

Moka MV :

you are missunderstanding a lot of the phrases...