Wasting your time on always humbling yourself through the eyes of others is like shooting yourself in the foot.
2026-04-30 11:55:13
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user4203656967 :
Can you stop…
2026-04-24 10:10:27
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PoundstoPower :
I can see you doing a glow up series.
2026-04-25 00:06:11
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perfect :
If u are happy with what you are why do you keep talking about it.
2026-04-29 04:58:00
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Kt :
I feel like ultimately this behavior is more protective rather than “being objective and logical”
2026-04-25 16:15:52
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lala 🤍 :
Girl let me style you.
2026-05-05 17:53:10
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Andrea ✨ :
I’d love to see you, maybe do a series of where you work on building confidence and doing things so that you feel more attractive because you have that in you you just have to believe in yourself.
2026-04-30 14:54:20
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caro :
Hey girl, just wanted to say that I did something very similarly in regards to my perspective of myself and I personally, through therapy, realized that I was using my "objective" perspective of myself to harm myself and box myself in. I was hammering all of my worst thoughts about myself into my brain under the guise of "objectivity"! Maybe consider the fact that you're not fully meant to understand/know how other people perceive you.
2026-05-07 18:48:36
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Leighann | Wild Unbecoming 🐍 :
Gently, I think one thing you might be missing is: who you believe you are, shapes your reality… it’s all a self-fulfilling prophecy. I’m very glad you’re happy with who and where you are. YOU define that, not the rest of the world.
2026-05-07 01:05:37
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Liz DeGrazia :
Someone else’s beauty doesn’t take away from yours just like someone else being a phenomenal singer doesn’t mean you aren’t a good singer
2026-04-22 23:47:44
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kim :
I think that you’re limiting yourself by centering your perspective of yourself around how others “objectively” see you.
2026-05-08 17:21:19
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miounk :
You are the real creator of your reality. if you see yourself as average, you'll be average for you and the others. Nothing Will Change if you dont Change your perspective and belief.. would be great for you to find and trust the good things about you (instead of comparing) you are só much than that!
2026-04-28 16:50:55
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Elise :
I think the interesting thing about conventional attractiveness is that it’s such a superseding social currency, and it doesn’t really get talked about because it would mean looking directly at the hierarchy which is meant to be covertly socially upheld and defined entirely by The Group™️which means naming it is breaking the contract… people don’t like that nobody where you’re situated in said hierarchy 😅
2026-04-22 21:27:58
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t1no5k :
it's hard to truly see yourself from an outside perspective. I feel sometimes when I do this I'm extremely harsh on myself
2026-04-26 12:34:14
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Phoebe :
I look at it as I’m going by evidence. I’m clearly not attractive or appealing, based on people’s reaction to me 🤷🏻♀️
2026-04-23 18:30:11
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bfhfddgh :
Im gonna be real I think the issue is personality not looks
2026-04-24 18:22:47
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alexa :
I think the problem goes way back to outside approval and not your own
2026-04-29 04:12:06
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pollymarston4 :
I know what you mean, but it is literally impossible to see ourselves as others see us.
2026-04-24 13:25:28
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kim.anvb :
2 things: you ain’t trying and you too comfortable Not trying
2026-05-12 12:26:38
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Hanni.m.a :
in my opinion I'm a great story teller 😁
2026-05-20 10:44:12
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☮️🎀Tt'mod doll princess📻☮️🎀 :
Have you tried trying looks that make you feel good? because you could definitely show up more "conventional" . Honestly sometimes the right style and hair really makes a difference, most people will look "regular" with their hair up,no makeup , cozy clothes. It doesnt mean you HAVE to, to be pretty but I think it would boost your confidence more and others will notice that and gravitate to you more.
2026-05-17 01:08:02
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jaz :
You have gorgeous eyes and nice complexion, humans are not perfect but does not mean we are not beautiful
2026-05-06 10:33:13
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