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Cxleb2x :

As someone who struggles with overthinking and overanalyzing, I understand why this is something we’d want. But it’s also a selfish ask. You can’t ask someone to be the version of themselves that you want them to be just because of your own thoughts or fears. Every day is different, so feelings and actions will naturally vary. What’s going on in your head isn’t always reality, and it’s important not to treat assumptions as facts.

😶‍🌫️Kiah🤍 :

They just prove me right every time, never doubt your overthinking too much

Leon :

Trust me it doesn't matter. Consistency, reassurance, commitment doesn't mean much. They'll find something else to overthink about.

Jacki Rae :

Yeah and we also want that chicken sandwich

nevanevaneva41 :

something we have to learn as overthinkers is not everyone will respond or love in the same way that we will. seeing unrecognized patterns and inconsistent action doesn't mean that's there's less love. We typically tend to overlook the inconsistent actions of ourselves alot of the time honestly. That's why in a relationship a solid foundation is very important! we shall not lean on our own understanding in any relationship we have

D&T STITCHES 🧵🧵 :

Finally someone who understands it

Ben Chasîn :

honestly all I want is to feel secure

Ma🍃💋 :

ok real but not everytime is shi going to be consistent things will change, and thats normal. like i need some reality in here these comments arent it.

Боб Баякея :

I am a consistency kind of guy 💯

rissa 💋 :

consistent behavior after betrayal creates a fear i was not prepared for. nothing has been done wrong in a month. not even the smallest boundary has been crossed. yet, i am beyond on edge and terrified. trying to understand that people can and will change if they want to, despite harm they may have already caused, is SO HARD. and don't say "just leave, they never change, they get better at hiding" blah, blah, blah. sometimes you love someone so much that you forgive the unforgivable while understanding you're allowed to change your mind and walk away at any moment. however, if you feel the need to apologize for your reactions right off the bat, you need to walk immediately.

00JayLo🦍 :

Armani🤍 :

Facts… but sometimes even when it’s consistent, your mind still be tryna find something wrong. that’s the part people don’t talk about. Consistency gives peace, but if your mind used to chaos, it’ll still look for problems.

𝕀'𝕞 𝕊𝕐🇬🇭 :

consistent behavior The reason why I do play games

LUNA :

Ain’t that the truth!!

Asa Aesthetic/ Awka :

Like is not hard

💚💨Robbie$Ⓜ️ :

rjw9000 :

Real but I’m done asking

larissaamonett :

Is that asking for to much tho ? I feel It can be so draining

patiencespammed :

What about when behavior is consistent but u still unintentionally search for problems

ty :

but as someone who can’t provide consistent behavior it would be selfish to ask for that

M A Z I K E E N :

That’s it. I know I’ve fucked up, but I want to be better for her in every way. It just seems like I’m hitting a wall at any given moment.

nina :) :

yuno ball