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Flying Spaghetti Monster 👾 :
I'm hanging up laundry as I'm watching/ listening. And I'm not even halfway through your video and three times I've looked over to make sure I liked the video.
2026-04-28 14:10:13
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Weezer 🐦🔥🇵🇸🔻🏳️🌈🌎 :
I hope someone hears you friend
2026-04-23 18:28:43
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Alisha :
It's sad you even have to explain this 😔
2026-04-23 19:12:38
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Giggles / K :
I love your approaches and explanations. Thank you sm
2026-04-23 07:23:51
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undefinable human :
This issue here is that dv framework is to rigid and would greatly benefit from a more nuance abstract approach. People are obsessed with the event, but they never question the years and months prior to the event. It’s so much bigger topic than anyone’s willing to undertake
2026-04-23 06:18:37
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ghostpurr :
"how do we help abusers not abuse " like they're not literally having meetings in massive groups to discuss abuse strategies
2026-04-24 11:33:53
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YV2K :
I don't know what to do now that I got the year long restraining order and one custody I have no idea how to start over
2026-04-24 01:15:15
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d00bn00b :
Hi so as someone who works in a dv shelter, it’s illegal to discriminate based on gender in my state. We legally cannot deny men from DV shelters.
2026-04-23 15:41:15
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OutOfThisWorld :
You are a gd warrior and I so appreciate your content. And I guess I shouldn’t be but I’m always struck by how insane some of the comments are for your videos— like I’m here drinking life waters of truth from your videos then need to suddenly throw on a hazmat ☣️suit for the comment section. 😆 sister, I see you!! 💜
2026-04-23 14:23:02
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Leann|veteranforeclosurecrisis :
THANK YOU. 💯👏
2026-04-24 01:02:08
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myunfilteredheart :
@angeli
2026-04-24 14:15:56
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gianna 𓆃 :
"it's not a gender thing" YES IT IS the origins of DV are quite literally linked to how men, individually and socially, GLOBALLY, have been treating women for CENTURIES
2026-04-23 02:13:15
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blue38067 :
lundy bancroft thinks trans women shouldn’t be in women shelters. I understand not centering men like johnny depp but can you assure people that trans women are included as women? They have the same vulnerability as cis women
2026-04-23 02:29:59
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nohohankfan :
It’s shocking to me how many situations that involve men’s violence against women or femicide (a term that others have noted the US seems particularly resistant to using despite its worldwide popularity as a term) somehow end up being framed as a “men’s mental health” issue, which I’m starting to believe is just a smokescreen for patriarchy. Like how could u read that CNN article and arrive at the image of a man in psychological distress simply in need of resources, wanting to change/hurt women less, instead of a man harming women on purpose, hiding it on purpose because he’s aware it’ll be seen as wrong, but who still feels it’s all justified because he feels entitled to his wife’s body as his sexual property. People keep on debating the efficacy of a hotline and harm reduction, but I think what rubbed people the wrong way about that suggestion is how we even got to the hotline topic in the first place based on the content of the article. It seems some male mh providers struggle to grapple with the concept of abusive men who are voluntarily carrying out their actual goals to harm women, aided by patriarchy, rather than acting out some ego-dystonic “intrusive thought” that is not actually fully internalized or believed by them. At what point will we take seriously the way that many men sincerely believe and treat their female partners as property who do not deserve to be as autonomous as they are, and that this is not a symptom of their own psychological distress, but rather internalizing patriarchal norms that serve them?
2026-04-28 07:18:50
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Elf 🔥 :
women also perpetuate misogyny. pretending that only men are perpetrators of violence is stupid and dangerous. the only reason women don't offend at the same rate is because of the culture we live in that teaches girls to be meek and that hard work is for men. using gender neutral terms is simply more useful as it tells you the dynamics of the situation rather than the identity
2026-04-23 14:14:40
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🇨🇦🇨🇦MeMyselfAnd👁️ :
Fully agree with you that words matter and that decentring men means rethinking terms and concepts. It’s like calling child sexual abuse and exploitation materials child porn. There is nothing pornographic about these materials. And yes, it’s all about power and control. My Question: I survived 16 years of abuse - emotional, mental, sexual, and financial. Although many of his actions felt violent, I did not experience physical abuse in terms of violence leading to physical bodily harm, although some of his actions did risk my health more broadly. I understand that all forms of abuse are technically / academically considered male perpetrated violence. However, there is part of me thinks the word violence does not adequately encompasses all forms of abuse. I also believe it is imperative to challenge the popular belief that physical violence is ‘real’ abuse. I would love to know your thoughts on how to ensure the terminology is encompassing all forms of male perpetrated abuse.
2026-04-23 23:04:54
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jodee | zenraged :
the first time I skimmed the comment, I misunderstood what was said and thought ‘see he is gay.’ And then when I read other comments I started to understand and picture it and it physically made me ill like I was performing it myself on him.. 😖 🤮 I felt violated!
2026-04-23 14:28:00
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