Opallauryn
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midwestmahhhhnster :
I am finally confronting my feelings, not when I noticed them, but after marrying the fiance and having a child with him. it's somehow hopeful and cathartic to watch you make the choices I didn't trust myself enough to make when it would have caused less harm. I think you're at the start of a beautiful future.
2026-04-23 19:25:46
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lobotomygirlxx :
I felt the same way. I went through this in December, moved out end of February. It was hard. I still miss my life before. I still miss him. But I’m also very happy with the new
2026-04-23 14:57:18
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Reanna | Solo Life 🌻 :
I've really found these videos so relatable, my 4.5 year relationship ended suddenly a month ago and I've resonated alot with your journey and talk around mental load etc. Thank you for sharing, you've got this 💪🏾💖💖
2026-04-23 13:50:47
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Eos Sola :
I can understand. I left my ex and was so grateful to be given the opportunity to choose myself. But I grieve the life I was going to live that I poured my heart into. I had a house, a future family in mind. But now I can be myself, be the actually queer human I am, and finally pour into my cup first. You will still grieve for a while, but know the difficulty is worth it because we have a lot to look forward to. I wish you well.
2026-04-23 13:34:43
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gripper5000 :
Just now I’m feeling these feelings after like three years of being separated. It’s good that you can feel them now.
2026-04-24 15:23:34
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Alex :
Going through some similar experiences so thank you for sharing your story and your realness. Wishing you the best stranger 🌺
2026-04-23 12:44:21
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Chic'_and_Destroy :
I love the exposure that you're experiencing with everything that you've experienced. I love the exposure that you're experiencing when you're realizing yourself. I love the growth that I'm watching and I'm so inspired by it. ❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-28 02:52:22
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thanks.i.hate.it6 :
I know it's scary and sad, but you're gonna be ok ❤️
2026-04-23 23:50:02
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Spookyoatmeal :
I think it's normal to feel this way. My ex husband was horrible but I still felt sad about losing the future we had talked about. We always talk about grief in terms of someone dying, but we also experience grief when a future we planned for "dies"
2026-04-24 01:56:36
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jenna.royer :
Well I just sat here and bawled with you…I felt that and am sitting In similar feelings.
2026-04-24 04:06:50
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ChaosHarbour :
you are not alone. it's been a year since I left my marriage, and the months following the day I moved out were hard. it fluctuated day to day. do the things you love. spend time with people you love. give yourself things to look forward to. you're worth the effort.
2026-04-23 15:46:17
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Aimz :
Wow do I feel this with you. I had to move out, my husband wouldn't decide. I left behind pieces of a life that I wanted to nurture for years to come. And it's really hard to start over again, but it WILL be worth it even on the days it doesn't feel like it. 💚💙
2026-04-23 13:18:05
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NicolaC 🇪🇺🇬🇧 :
Someone said (and I may have quoted it here before) you don’t miss the person, you miss the routines/habits you shared.
2026-04-23 22:25:07
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chloemoffett755 :
I’m right here too, thank you for articulating this so well 💜
2026-04-23 13:54:22
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Sharissa💋🧠 :
Sending you so much love! I also sent a DM request sharing how you helped me get to a point where I needed to be in my similar situation.
2026-04-23 12:48:23
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djdjdjdjdkk :
I went through this 5 months ago today. You'll feel lonely at first, but my tip is to surround yourself with loved ones, open up with them...and then all of a sudden you'll be thankful that your life didn't turn out how you thought it would and will actually enjoy life much more than before
2026-04-23 17:03:37
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Chic'_and_Destroy :
You're literally being my kindergarten teacher for my inner child.... DAMMIT you're so good at this.
2026-04-28 02:52:50
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