@heather.xoxo: #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshiptips #HealingJourney #anxiousattachment

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imma take this advice for my friendships too cus I really hate getting disrespected and not getting the appreciation that I deserve

💫nia🦈 :

Said everything perfectly!!!!

Rythe ☽ :

May I ask what to do if boundaries are crossed?

Timz :

Love this! an amazing encapsulation of boundaries. Though I just want everyone to know that adhering to your boundaries doesn't mean you should be cold or malicious to others. It's simply not allowing others to have power over you. They don't have reigns of your self-worth. ... I don't have any problems with the other boundaries except 1. It is correct, only with prudence. Because it could also be in a way an avoidance defense mechanism which might limit communication and chance to mend things to people that actually matters. This boundary is appropriate to those that are completely not there for you. But those that actually are there for you. Give them a chance to learn from it. But if they don't change. They're probably only there for your convenience. That's all!

klaudunia :

im to weak to leave tho

JoshuaTGRV :

i understand the boundaries, and i do have one queestion out of curiousity. i always apologize afterwards when i am calmer for the way i behaved, what if that happens?

Elue :

and this applies to all relationship rights? not just girlfriend boyfriend?

🪷 :

and then they tell me im selfish ☹️

zeeeiiarah :

I wish I knew this earlier

_ceejie :

just know that im here

916bkayy🇵🇹👸🏽💸💕 :

heavy on 7

hex :

this and friendships

hannah 🦋 :

this is so so good wow

Sena :

Number 7 is the real deal

keisi :

Heavy on 5

raniaa square pants :

oh wow..

K :

Well said💯

LIA💐 :

I needed this

🧚🏼‍♀️fairyna :

Indeed✨

Baylee 🤍 :

yessss

liya 🪬 :

honestly i just reciprocate their energy

emi4.xoxo :

Thx for this great advice

isterirefalhady :

marit :

i have to learn