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imma take this advice for my friendships too cus I really hate getting disrespected and not getting the appreciation that I deserve

💫nia🦈 :

Said everything perfectly!!!!

Rythe ☽ :

May I ask what to do if boundaries are crossed?

JoshuaTGRV :

i understand the boundaries, and i do have one queestion out of curiousity. i always apologize afterwards when i am calmer for the way i behaved, what if that happens?

klaxure :

im to weak to leave tho

_ceejie :

just know that im here

hannah 🦋 :

this is so so good wow

916bkayy🇵🇹👸🏽💸💕 :

heavy on 7

hex :

this and friendships

Sena :

Number 7 is the real deal

keisi :

Heavy on 5

kris :

失った愛の悲しみを悼む :

and then they tell me im selfish ☹️

raniaa square pants :

oh wow..

LIA💐 :

I needed this

yaperhaps :

Indeed✨

The Boundary Babe :

These are really great suggestions. I like how you gave an explanation with all of them too. I wish it wasn’t easier to set boundaries but I know it will take time and practice.

Kaien :

Love this! an amazing encapsulation of boundaries. Though I just want everyone to know that adhering to your boundaries doesn't mean you should be cold or malicious to others. It's simply not allowing others to have power over you. They don't have reigns of your self-worth. ... I don't have any problems with the other boundaries except 1. It is correct, only with prudence. Because it could also be in a way an avoidance defense mechanism which might limit communication and chance to mend things to people that actually matters. This boundary is appropriate to those that are completely not there for you. But those that actually are there for you. Give them a chance to learn from it. But if they don't change. They're probably only there for your convenience. That's all!

Eluei :

and this applies to all relationship rights? not just girlfriend boyfriend?

K :

Well said💯

Nyerhome :

People who only show up when it is convenient for them shows one and one thing only, you're not a priority to them.

Baylee 🤍 :

yessss

liya 🪬 :

honestly i just reciprocate their energy

emi4.xoxo :

Thx for this great advice