The Pottymouth Guru
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Lady T 💕 :
But what if I do label the underlying feeling and I’m still dismissed or invalidated??? The same problem of me not being considered or involved keeps happening in different ways and I keep reacting from the pattern
2026-05-07 23:32:42
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KempPainInTheButt :
Oof. This was hard to hear but i needed to hear all of this
2026-06-01 06:22:48
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Ryan Roux :
In my experience both parties played a role in whatever the event is. I like to take some time and reflect on the others feelings and how my actions and words could have been taken , not how I meant them.
2026-06-04 10:24:40
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Mandamurraycurrie :
What happens when the defensiveness happens regardless of how the hurt is articulated?
2026-04-24 16:50:41
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Aussie Sassa 🇦🇺 🦘🏳️🌈 :
I told them they hurt me more than they will ever know and their response was to be angry with me.... so I walked away....
2026-04-26 00:56:07
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Justine :
Thank you. I need to be better with my delivery. I’m just SO ANGRY. 😭
2026-05-15 21:24:06
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The Pottymouth Guru :
Be honest… has your delivery ever made it harder to be heard?
2026-04-23 19:01:51
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Alexandrya :
Yes I agree, just never know how to articulate it
2026-04-24 04:02:04
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Shannon S :
I said, "I don't miss talking to you ' wrong?
2026-05-19 22:00:17
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Ashley B :
so then how do you actually discuss a pattern of behavior that leaves you feeling dismissed/hurt/etc?
2026-05-15 13:40:09
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b4tzen :
i wonder why i was able to see the hurt beneath the anger when roles were switched but my friend is not. instead he told me I'm overreacting. which triggers me cause that's currently one of my biggest issues in life (not being emotional die to fear of rejection, and recently being gaslit by my boss about my perception), hmph.
2026-05-01 16:57:08
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Lynn :
what if I wanna communicate I'm hurt and they always talk over me 💀😭
2026-05-13 07:45:06
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Klaushausnl :
I love this! So often missed in content. And definitely still on the receiver to avoid defensiveness
2026-04-23 20:40:51
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Babbs :
Really want to forward this but she doesn’t have tik tok. Can’t find this video on Instagram. Is it there?
2026-05-10 00:34:57
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Adeana :
that gets hard when it always happens
2026-04-29 14:25:38
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FreddysGirl :
I love your content, thankyou
2026-04-23 19:12:38
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Scott :
This really helped.
2026-05-01 14:43:34
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misssuzieq1 :
Okay but what about when it’s the pattern and it really is way more about the isolated event?
2026-05-04 22:04:54
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karijo2035 :
I " statements .. its all hard
2026-04-28 16:08:33
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adoracatra4eva :
and sadly doing this and always honoring the truth as much as possible still might not be enough, so brace yourselves and find some professionals to support you
2026-04-24 02:15:23
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Shara Morales :
Impact
2026-04-27 04:25:29
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Nasty_honey :
impact
2026-04-29 21:49:21
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Trisha Fisher :
Impact
2026-05-13 00:29:33
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aaliyah :
I do think my delivery is off , because I dont feel im defending i just want them to understand me ,
2026-05-06 18:37:51
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Erin Taylor :
IMPACT!!! 😞
2026-04-28 23:04:07
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