@kylejohnson9191: How to get an avoidant X to come back after 30 to 60 days Step number one is to immediately go into no contact and let the breakup simmer in your ex’s mind Step number two actually focus on yourself during the no contact and break up time so that if the relationship came back the next day or next week would actually be different and better Step number three to let nostalgia do its thing nostalgia is the number one thing that will bring your ex back to you because when they start to wonder about you and then they have all these good memories backed up with no contact. They actually really miss a relationship.
I begged and chase way too hard during the break up and some days later. But a week later, I started no contact. Today we’re in 47 days without any contact, sign etc..do I have a chance?
2026-04-23 18:39:31
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Sarah!🇨🇦 :
what if hes avoindent and broke it off, I didnt k ow it was coming... but said "we can still talk" i havent its been 12 hours since thr break up. ?
2026-05-06 20:38:44
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Colby :
I've been in no contact with her for 2 months. And she's been viewing my TikTok every day since, but I haven't heard from her.
2026-04-23 19:40:15
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5.3Brandon :
what if i begged to much and she blocked me on everything, is it over ?
2026-05-04 05:57:14
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Danelle Nel :
what if he already moved on ???
2026-04-23 19:43:23
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TheMuppets :
@TheMuppet: My ex and I broke up 2 weeks now. At first he remove me from Facebook. He still following me on instagram. At first he watched my IG story this week he never watch it but I can see he constantly online just avoiding watching my post. So what about that? He pushed me away and stop the relationship. Remove me in social media. and I don’t get why is the need for him to do that and he still following me on instagram. So can you help me with this? Ever since we stay no contact at all until now. So will he come back?
2026-04-24 02:06:49
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Queen.B🐝 :
I was answering his calls and it definitely made it worse.
2026-05-17 04:23:33
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Juice box enthusiast :
What if you’re long distance
2026-06-12 20:47:13
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ks_namenot :
and what if we are colleagues?? we work together and we see each other every day!!! I never text him, I never initiate contact. how can I achieve no contact?
2026-04-25 19:41:12
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JRL💫 :
Day 1 no contact 💀🫠 best I did was 7 days… tomorrow is our 1 year anniversary 🥲
2026-04-24 07:40:55
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Summer :
Its been literally 84 days and still nothing
2026-04-23 23:31:25
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mommy :
what if u was in a long distance relationship 🤔
2026-06-03 18:25:28
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Brenda S. Rojas✨♥️ :
No contact means block them ?? Cause I block him to many times already 🥺😭
2026-04-26 01:11:40
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Angelina :
Do you do any coaching phone calls on how to get your ex back?
2026-04-23 19:26:18
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bella :) 🎸🎧 :
lol yeah I begged one time in the initial breakup call but that was it. So went into immediate NC right after the call, we’re on month 6.
2026-04-24 02:23:04
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Rebecca Elaine lea :
we have kids so can not do no contact
2026-04-28 11:31:38
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namorcris :
Is there at some point after giving enough space to your avoidant, it’s okay to reach out?
2026-04-24 13:55:08
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cinnamongirl :
i hope so
2026-06-06 13:25:26
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iacobus ✝️ :
thank you brother , you actually gave me peace for .. 1:30 minutes , I appreciate it
2026-06-10 09:20:41
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Melissa 💫🪬🧿🌙 :
They blocked me after a year relationship and kids involved 4 weeks ago and I just want my family back. One last conversation could have fixed everything but he acts like we never existed and the pain is like no other.
2026-06-08 18:52:15
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lov3rgirl14 :
what if we still live together? and we co-parent
2026-08-10 22:41:48
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Nodnara :
Yeah that only works if they don’t have a rebound. So yeah she is not coming back.
2026-04-25 03:00:54
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𝒥𝑜𝓃 :
It’s honestly surprising how unknown The Pullback Effect by Marcus Veyne still is. The psychology behind making her chase you is deeper than most people expect.
2026-05-11 12:30:50
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CherubJ :
I would do ANYTHING to have a needy clingy partner!
2026-06-05 22:06:15
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🧟♀️ lover :
Hard to do that if u live with them and share a child
2026-04-24 17:32:32
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