@tess.lavanda: #london #moving #alone #solodate #homesick

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ralz29
ralz29 :
Girl it’s been 3 days, give it time
2026-04-25 11:36:01
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mama_and_sl
Mama and SL :
I sat on my own today in Greenwich park, with my grapes from M&S ❤️
2026-04-25 14:25:43
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whiiites
Whiites :
Not even been a week yet lol chill out
2026-04-25 16:21:55
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louishaaa_
louisha | master of none :
It’s bee 3 days babe, you’ll be fine
2026-04-25 14:23:13
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missidcullen
Idoia Hernández Colo :
Having moved to London ten years ago, I can’t sugarcoat it: it’s a draining city but also offers incredible opportunities. There will be good days and truly awful ones that make you wish you were somewhere else. London isn’t for the faint-hearted; either you love it or hate it, but I personally never regret it. I’ve learned so much, worked in amazing places and met wonderful people I wouldn’t have met if I’d stayed home. My advice is to take it one day at a time. London is relentless but you can also slow down and create a life you want. Be wary of the FOMO culture though. There’s always something happening and you feel guilty for taking your time. As I said, things will always work out eventually. Slow down, take it one day at a time or you’ll burn out quickly. Otherwise, enjoy it and make it yours! You moved at a perfect time now that the sunny days are ahead. And things always work out 🥰.
2026-04-25 13:08:29
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sccosdev
Scos :
Stay safe it’s very dangerous there
2026-04-25 16:09:23
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reuben_wink1
reuben_ :
Yeah but those grapes look amazing
2026-04-23 20:09:20
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sdbaxter
Stephanie Baxter :
I sat and read my book in a pub garden today, on my own... sadly no grapes
2026-04-25 16:48:21
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melody_moments
Melody moments :
I moved here 7 years ago. Knew no one at all. Now I’ve made the most amazing network of friends. Unfortunately, they’re all leaving London now. Best advice, join a club. I joined a choir and found some amazing people. I still get very lonely though. Even today I was on my own eating grapes in a park too!
2026-04-25 17:08:01
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usually.procrastinating
Em :
Started over in london almost 10 years ago. No friends, no support system, just me in this big old city. Now? I couldn’t imagine living anywhere else. I often do things alone, but also with my wonderful chosen family I built here.
2026-04-25 13:36:50
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frankie97501
🐈‍⬛✧˖°🎃⋆。ғʀᴀɴᴋɪᴇ⋆。🥧୨ৎ🕸 :
trust me queen you’ll make friends eventually!! and if not, so what? you go be an independent diva and trust me it’ll take some time but soon you’ll be thriving ❤️❤️
2026-04-23 20:59:59
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hala.rage0
Hala Rage :
12 years in london im still alone , you will be fine .
2026-04-25 18:08:00
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annieandme_uk
AnnieandMe :
I sat in my hammock on my terratza in Battersea today eating grapes 😅 Came to London 1990 as an 18yr old gay man, not a lot of choices back then for places to live & have made the best life for myself. It’s been bluddy hard work but worth it.
2026-04-25 18:38:05
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a1.120x_
ع :
Pls wash the grapes
2026-04-25 14:02:02
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22shhh22
Cestlavie :
@Cestlavie: There’s an EXCELLENT Facebook group that will be perfect for you: The London Lonely Girls Club. It’s so supportive and friendly! Give it a go xxx
2026-04-25 15:41:50
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b.m.dan
DANIEL :
You’ve picked a great time to move. The weather will be great for 2 weeks.
2026-04-25 15:51:42
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bzooter
Bzooter :
Lived in London my whole life and sometimes it does feel so lonely, it can be a very hostile overwhelming place. If you ever need a coffee partner feel free to message me💕
2026-04-25 14:43:10
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ajandyou1
ajandyou :
3 days ago?!?! Girl call us back in a year. Less romanticising London or just being pals in general on tt. You will lower your expectations so fast. But enjoy park and sun
2026-04-25 12:10:10
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chanicehird
Chanice | cosplayer/actor :
moving to London in this economy is a choice 🙃 I want out this whole country
2026-04-25 13:28:51
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m.auddie
M A U D :
Download Bumble bff ❤️
2026-04-25 19:50:45
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julietlucyrose
Juliet :
Check out Waterlow park in Highgate - the best views and always cool girls there alone!
2026-04-24 19:32:15
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lowcallie
lowcallie :
how do people afford to do this
2026-04-25 15:32:37
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nicolesara34
nicole :
I moved to London alone last September! It is hard to begin with, as you said, it’s seeing everyone with friends and you’re by yourself. But I can honestly say I’ve learned to absolutely love my own company and just having the freedom to go and do anything when I have a day to myself.
2026-04-25 16:53:44
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mariacollxx
Maria🪩 :
hey girl! I moved down here solo last July and understand 100% how you feel. I’m only just adjusting. Getting yourself out there is the best thing to do - and use the facebook groups to meet people too 💘
2026-04-25 06:59:25
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tasadduqkhurshid
Tass :
best of Luck tess 😊
2026-04-27 11:25:13
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