in order for a burned out pursuer to recover I need to watch fewer of these
2026-06-25 11:48:32
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sophia ★ :
we are in no contact right now, i think they’re expecting me to reach out first, when should i do so and what would we talk about if im hoping to reconcile without pressuring them.
2026-05-15 04:55:18
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keisha :
HOW DO I SAVE IT UGH
2026-07-07 01:21:02
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Aloha_74 :
Lost my fiancé because I didn’t know how to process my emotions and she begged me for over a year to talk to her even if it’s a I feel like this but idk why and I have buried all emotions for so long I couldn’t break that habit or the fear of opening up to anyone and she just called it off and broke up with me and that was the wake up call to change after it was to late and I just regret so many things but not an ounce of regret for any of the time we had together
2026-05-19 23:15:24
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Troy Padilla :
I did everything that I could. I worked on myself, I showed her patience. I showed her consistency in the end she still chose to walk away and I miss her every day part of me still has hope that show come back so I could show her that she is safe with me
2026-04-24 00:41:57
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Chokko :
But if I'm trying to do all of that and I'm burning out myself, what do I do? I'm trying to make him feel seen and everything, but he hasn't said a single ily or shown me any ounce of love or affection. i feel invalidated and unseen, and hella unloved. what should I do?
2026-05-25 00:26:44
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rayray :
She sent me she doesn’t want me to message her anymore what should I do give her space or something else ?
2026-05-16 12:19:51
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Nicolettas87 :
Is there a book on this? Where do you or your therapist get this from? Would love to read more about this if it’s available
2026-06-20 19:20:53
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Sigmo85🦈🪸 :
What if both parties are burnt out him ( anxious attach ) her ( avoidant ). How can we get better together??
2026-04-26 14:29:25
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Audrey Dahlstrom :
i keep asking what she wants if she wants space from me or not and she just keeps saying she doesn’t know. we had been going good again for about a week n then i found out the whole time she was entertaining a guy and i kinda blew up on her over that and wish i didn’t react the way i did. but i feel like she’s trying to make me make the decision for her which i don’t like.
2026-05-18 17:26:08
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Cristian :
What to do if she asked for a divorce one month ago and already filed?
2026-06-26 21:40:18
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FireplaceGuy :
Dealing with this for the last 6 months. Good info. It’s tough.
2026-04-23 21:50:21
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Dre Jara :
what if its long distance. and the main problems happened through my actions online rather than in person?
2026-06-13 04:54:50
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KulturesKouture|Beauty Creator :
What if it’s two people burnt out at the same time?
2026-05-14 15:22:38
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Liz :
This is so much more difficult since we live together
2026-05-17 04:08:28
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.... :
Ok… but how much space or time should you give them before doing these 3 things?
2026-04-24 08:48:43
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MrCJDrizzt :
I am very clear on what went wrong. I see her now. She has the choice with no pressure. I tried the pressure part. even if not on purpose, and it obviously didnt work. I am glad it didnt. I am trying to build that connection slowly but surely. Space is being given. She needs it.
2026-05-07 12:50:12
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Shush :
She blocked me so I should I just wait for her or try something in the right time ?
2026-06-12 09:45:47
1
Romaina :
I sent a message
2026-04-24 00:59:28
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FℲ :
i’m fried
2026-04-24 00:29:09
1
Merlyn Q :
This is hard specially when I’m so usted to checking up on him a lot through the day both of us to be honest.
2026-04-23 22:16:38
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stefandumitrutt :
What if she’s 200 miles away?
2026-06-20 09:55:00
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Nene :
I think it might be what happened to me. I tried to DM you, but I receive an error notification
2026-07-12 17:43:03
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🐋azzy :
Wrong fyp
2026-06-05 14:52:19
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Veles :
Yeah not worth it,
2026-04-24 08:08:26
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