@sierra.nori.app: This is a really tough decision for me, but I think I’d choose the chill baby and trusted childcare. That would enable me to do so much more myself if I had to. Especially since I already do have the help of @Nori to help me plan those meals, make the shopping lists, share them with my husband, etc. Nori can even help me schedule recovery based self care appointments if I need them, as well as some time to do laundry. But I do need to have the energy of someone who has a bay that sleeps!