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Lis | Brand & Digital Design :

deedeequeen1589 :

I don't know about making decisions NOW. I wouldn't say that's the best way to deal with that. You need to stop the overthinking. And you do that by regulating your nervous system. Making decisions when you're overthinking is the worst way to deal with that. Train your nervous system. Saying "no thank you, I'm not interested" is a way that helps in time to train yourself. Breathing techniques is also helpful. That's what you should teach people to do not to make rash decisions out of anxiety and fear and overthinking

María Paula :

I wasn't gonna comment but Mind Override Protocol by Novar Kade literally changed how I talk to myself. not in a corny affirmation way. I just stopped believing every thought that shows up some of them aren't mine the book explains why

_guille^ :

I bought Mind Override Protocol by Novar Kade thinking it was gonna be another "believe in yourself" type book. bro. it's not. it's closer to finding out your own mind has been working against you this whole time

Paul Gray :

Copied straight off a graph in a book.

chani ﾒ𝟶 :

Kristy | Glydelle :

In my 35 years of life this was the best explanation I’ve ever heard

GardenOfCats :

SOOOOO fing tired of being told to pause first. Child, if I get to the point where I am snapping, I HAVE ALREADY USED THE AVAILABLE PAUSES. 🤦🏻

LPsquared :

Me cancelling plans so I can doom scroll in order to procrastinate the things I should be doing... ah yes

donutqueenie2022 :

hermione :

When I watch a video I want to understand what I need is that it isn't in 3x speed

Sara D 🇮🇪 :

sudsxo :

Screenshotted this so now I am invincible

Vincent Cho :

I could use this as a song (or several). Preferably something catchy.

Anahita :

How do I change states omg

Naima :

Change state of how ?

I love decor⚡️ 📲 :

Can someone bring me back here to rewatch. This is so good

LemonDrops444 :

what i actually need are those post-its! they stick well on the wall 😭 mine doesn't do those

Kevin Bridges :

Really love this, I just find it to quick for me to fully process and understand.

Maia :

What is over giving and over spending?

ZioWalterone :

I don't under stand the 2 minute stuff

𓆣 :

this is too fast I cannot even reflect on what you're saying

Diana :

I didn’t understand doom scrolling 😭

SilverMaestra :

How do i even change state lol

Patch Duke :

Damn I need to get these post it notes 🤔