@vibe_samurai: The moment someone hands you their broken pieces and you say “you’re strong, you got this” — something closes between you that never fully opens again. Not dramatic. Just quiet. A tiny crack in trust that neither of you ever names. This one goes deep. Save it. Send it to someone who needs it. 👇 Want to go even deeper? I write about patterns like this every week on Substack. Link in bio. #emotionalintelligence #awareness #relationships #personalgrowth #vibesamurai

olga :

Can’t stand that phrase be strong

Fred H :

I just experienced this. Their Dad passed and I told them that this too shall pass. That they got this. That he was in a better place. That’s NOT what they wanted or needed. I missed the mark.

Soumia N :

happened to me and my relation with the perdon who used to be my best Friend is no more the same.... i guess he never treat me liké his besty .. now we are just friend

Chelle888 :

correct!!!

king_universe_ :

No, thanks. We are not here to save other people repeatedly. People can emotionally drain you without ever filling you up. And it’s not your responsibility to help others feel good. Especially when they don’t care how you feel – they only come to you to discuss their own problems nonstop. No thanks.

Hardwood :

“ Presence is the offer “ Nice one.💯

sheep :

When people have said that to me it feels as though I’m being told off….sometimes you want a little caring empathy……

DebbDebb :

People tell me “you’re so strong” 🙄 and sometimes “stay strong” they don’t realize I’m just surviving because that’s what I have to do. Just instinct. I ignore comments that don’t make me feel good. But yes, I don’t trust their opinions after that!

Panasnya Meleysiee :

this is the nicest thing to hear. your words are so calmed

Amkam Prod. 💽 :

Excellent lesson!!! Great content, friend🔥🔥

Some One :

tiktok is bombing me with your videos and i need more time to process each video. thank you 🙏🙏🙏

EDones :

Brutal truth. Taking this with me

J-Kentaro :

Preach bro.👍👍👍🙏😇💗💐🌟✨🍀🌷

Nene-k :

Thank you for saying this. 🥰

chenai :

people around us these days teach us that we are on our own and we must deal with anything on our own that’s my life

John Alan Martinson :

Thank you for your wisdom, Samurai.

catia :

i'm here for you, and you let them cry while hugging them,and sometimes you cry with them, it's something you can't teach, you have it or you don't , if they came to you they already knew where to go. After if they want to talk, you listen.🙏

Chandra :

So true. ❤️

safia sameer :

very true

vicky85sing :

True

Keen :

So well said and a good reminder. Compassion is necessary

KiretaSama :

gvzalenxa :

Not sure if that works in a real life..

lilacbloom :

this

Mulagat :

I always say sorry and hold their hands or hug them and then I will ask if its okay to them if they wanna share and let it out,i will be listening quietly.They came to you because the trustvyou,because they treat you as A family,they have respect to you an dthey know they are safe with you.hugs to anyone thatbis going through some hardship,i hope you it will go smoothly for you