@lamewad_: The Dinner Party Dish Dilemma: A Cultural Take on Hosting Etiquette

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kayleect
Kaylee :
As a host, I would NEVER let my friends help. As a guest, I would NEVER not help
2026-04-26 14:20:46
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d_o_a_s_b_w_rkg
d_o_a_s_b_w_rkg :
dinner at Isabelle's 😂😂 I felt like commenting this take but I didn't want to get jumped by white ppl😂
2026-04-25 06:52:04
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khadidjasenouci682
Khadidja 🍉 :
We start cleaning before the dinner is even over 😭
2026-04-24 20:23:47
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tinekeyounger
Tini👩🏼‍🍳🔥 :
If I’m a guest I always offer to help clean or I’ll clean but then as a host I’m always declining help lol
2026-04-26 17:14:49
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dxm_bbg
Dom🇨🇦🇵🇱 :
in my house, proper etiquette when going to a dinner party at someone’s house is to argue with the host when they insist they don’t need help cleaning up - by the time the argument is over, i’m halfway through the dishes
2026-04-25 01:14:18
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aishaschapter
aisha 📖🫧 :
I ain’t letting no guest wash any dishes babe 😂😂😂
2026-04-26 05:48:17
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mewmows7
Mewmows7 :
No literally like wtf
2026-04-24 19:21:33
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heyjupiter
sj :
... I would absolutely hate that so much. I invited you into my home to have a great time. The home is my responsibility.
2026-04-24 19:46:07
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sparklesandperlas
Perla :
I will not let guest clean. That is so rude.
2026-04-24 22:01:40
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effyoumark
AbsolutelyNotMark :
Growing up my mom did absolutely teach me to help clean up when we had dinner at someone else’s home. HOWEVER, now that I’m an adult I NEVER let my guests help and I turn down all offers. So, I dunno. In my mind, my guests don’t have to help. But if I am the guest? I’m offering and helping.
2026-04-24 20:46:51
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mvlidv
M A L I D A :
At the very LEAST put your dish in the sink…
2026-04-26 00:00:41
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janchris3130
Janice :
I am Trini and no one leaves until my kitchen/dining is back to normal. I don't even have to ask. That's our culture. I actually relax after dinner
2026-04-24 19:58:19
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ally_d_88
ally-d 🇨🇦 :
as exhausting as it is, I have my own way of cleaning so my guests cleaning would give me anxiety. plz enjoy and leave
2026-04-25 00:48:05
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user1693027310985
user1693027310985 :
Hey so culture and community is subjective. What is considered rude in one culture is polite in another. This is true worldwide. There is no “wrong” way to have a culture:community. Your culture is not any more “correct” than another.
2026-04-26 13:34:38
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seokjinniesrj
Robyn :
dinner table is cleared before dessert and then that cleared up and we have tea and the very most the host will have to clean up a few cups
2026-04-25 07:33:06
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d.k.j
d.k.j 🇨🇦 :
i don’t let my guests clean up. a guest shouldn’t feel responsible to prep, deliver or clear away a party i invited them to
2026-04-25 00:57:46
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maryhuynhh
Mary 🩷 :
So weird. Wdym because my family/friends fight to wash the dishes for the host.
2026-04-25 01:38:17
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blissfulbeans
Renee :
Standard etiquette, in my opinion.
2026-04-24 20:20:54
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naaaaa_011
nana :
also the word "reset" just FOR CLEANING why do we need an aesthetic word for it
2026-04-25 19:29:29
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einnahs432
Iennahs432 :
No I’m the host, I will clean up. I will leave the dishes to spend the evening with you without putting you to work.
2026-04-25 22:54:35
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eastof_perfect
eastof_perfect :
In my culture it is rude to let guests help! I’d be mad even at my closest friends if they tried washing my dishes!! You want to pay it forward you host at your home sometime, or send something nice (mostly food but could be anything) afterwards, but cleaning my place is rude!
2026-04-25 08:27:50
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toddy.the.fox
toddy.the.fox :
But they are my guest? If it’s a family dinner they can go nuts and help me out but if I am putting on an event, I don’t expect my guests to do anything except arrive on time and tell me I cook good.
2026-04-25 03:25:09
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hafsa_whoo
pepsi :
like the bare minimum is taking the dishes back to the sink 😭 even if you don't personally wash them
2026-04-25 10:06:37
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celna12
Celna✨ :
There os no right answer here. Different cultures have different customs. That's just the way it is.
2026-04-25 19:35:06
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gabsegarra
Gabs 🪷 :
Nobody is leaving until these dishes are done 😭
2026-04-25 00:45:47
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