@thecindynoir: How does our society play a role creating abusive men??

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classiej
Classie :
Commenting for when the right person chimes in
2026-04-25 02:13:32
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lelani_mc24
Mc_D’Amour🍑🇬🇳🥹 :
No like deadass! I am commenting so I can get an answer too. I am currently writing a paper about this for my independent studies.
2026-04-25 12:46:09
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imboos18
Leah 👀 :
commenting because I need answers, too.
2026-04-24 21:55:46
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brooklynborn20
💫Brooklynborndiva💫 :
I need answers too
2026-04-26 20:43:20
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blacklyevaafta
Ellem Eféyo :
I’m really trying to understand.
2026-04-24 21:08:56
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cocotheelawyer
CocoTheeLawyer🧜🏾‍♀️🐦‍⬛🦋⚖️ :
They are given automatic privileges for being male and they get coddled when they become violent. The observe that when men do bad things, they are seldom punished and often rewarded. They feel comfortable being violent because it’s praised. They literally have a “I can do what I want” mentality. Coupled with their conditioned misogyny, women are the easiest targets and come with the least consequences. The documentary “Tough Guise” is a good watch to explain male violence globally.
2026-04-24 22:17:54
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brianaeagen
Bri Momma :
Any form of supremacy is going to lead to violence because it involves dehumanizing a group or groups of people. They view the group as inferior while simultaneously viewing them as a threat. This leads to reduced empathy and morality bypassing.
2026-04-25 22:40:28
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janellwilliams6
Janell Williams :
Definitely need answers!
2026-04-25 00:49:45
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_maydaymax
Max 💅🏾 :
@Doctor Rita
2026-04-25 13:30:10
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choct28
ChocolateT🖤 :
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2026-04-25 19:09:49
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samanthajrbailey
Samantha Bailey :
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2026-04-25 19:49:50
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neicygh
neicygh :
OTHER MEN!!!!! My little cousin was the sweetest boy. We sent him to his grandfather for a male role model and in 3 months he came back full red pill “Black women aren’t sh*t” mentality. Wouldn’t listen to us, dismissed everything as “emotions.” Now he struggles in relationships. Young boys are SO impressionable.
2026-04-25 05:53:39
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iconicshade
Tee :
I work with very small kids. And some of the boys in fact are very violent very early
2026-04-25 15:25:08
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starlit.stories3
Starlit Stories ✨ Booktok📚 :
i think it's schomo phobia. they aggressively steer boys away from "feminine traits" in the effort to make them masculine ("not gay") don't cry, no emotions, etc and the inverse of that is attaching extremely negative feelings to those traits. At the same time they're being told they have to attach to a woman to achieve that idea of masculinity but when they do they can't tolerate us because they've been bred to h8 everything about us from birth. add that to the other things you said and you have the perfect predator who has been raised to have no empathy for our pain.
2026-04-25 05:03:51
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.uncle_vince
Uncle Vince 👴🏽 :
The thing is there are multiple things attacking little boys that’s conditioning them. If you want an individual perspective I suggest reading Don’t Cry For Me by Daniel Black. The book really details the experience of a man who failed his family and how after reflecting he realized where those behaviors were picked up.
2026-04-25 03:54:20
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jordiniah
Nah :
Its redpill content. It is literally a cult of misogyny that is being pushed on them from the second they step onto a social media platform as a young boy. As soon as the algorithm knows they are male they will get the content, usually theough the avenue of sports, ufc, gaming, etc. There have been numerous studies already done about how quickly they get radicalized, I encourage every woman to look it all up and educate yourself on whats happening and how nothing is being done to stop it ✨️
2026-04-25 19:36:34
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pkallday757
PK :
“Boys will be boys” results in violent men. From day one. They learn there are little to no consequences if they keep the abuse focused on girls and women. They are taught that women are here to serve them. Women are property. And every social queue affirms it.
2026-04-26 08:58:39
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bokchoybandita
Strange Sushi :
It's also the pressure of the rigid hierarchy they're socialized into. They cannot attack a man higher on the pecking order, but absolutely receive abuse from the men above them. Couple the rage of living within that with a system that makes SA functionally legal, and abuse of women & children (people who are perceived as beneath all men by inferiority) as not just common but unaddressable like an act of nature.
2026-04-25 14:39:28
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mskimberlyyvette2
Ms.Yvette :
Homophobia+misogny is at the root of
2026-04-25 06:45:56
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thebiggestkevin80
thebiggestkevin80 :
I can’t answer because I’m not violent. Can protect but that’s about it. But the standard of patriarchy i assume can be stressful. It needs to be abolished and people need to really understand how it’s destroying lives
2026-04-25 01:42:46
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musiclvr745
Musiclvr74 :
Not to simplify the issue but the number of guns in a country is directly related to the number of gun crimes. If there is a gun in the home you are like 4x more likely to have a suicide in the home
2026-04-26 10:05:30
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musiclvr745
Musiclvr74 :
Men are not responsible gun owners IMO
2026-04-26 10:06:31
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