reciprocal friendships has been on my prayer list for over a year now!! so important.
2026-04-25 01:41:17
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K :
This 😔 I’m always the friend to reach out, make plans, ask how they’re doing - but I’m so overwhelmed with wedding planing (all alone) that I don’t have the energy to be that person rn, so now I have friends who I haven’t heard from in months!! It’s not about asking too much, it’s about realizing that some friendships are fully one sided when you could use them to be there for you for once
2026-04-29 15:53:15
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Morgan 🤍 :
This! Because I celebrate all my friends’ small wins 100% but then feel alone in my big win.
2026-04-26 19:18:45
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DjBj :
I’m so confused as an engaged woman. What could I possible expect from my family and friends. This is an event IM planning. My friends are my GUESTS. I don’t get this rhetoric. I also don’t see a marriage as “leveling up” I don’t even really understand are they supposed to make every conversation about my event ? We got congratulation for our engagement, I don’t really expect excitement until the event.
2026-05-01 00:07:27
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Alexys D'Amore :
I never normally comment on anything on tik tok. However, I have never felt so seen by your takes on how weddings effect friendships and everything you have said is resonating with me so much. Thank you for being vulnerable enough to open up this conversation to women going through similar things in this phase of life!!
2026-04-24 23:08:15
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LushonM :
The friend that I am most likely going to cut off would door dash to make money to do things, spend weeks prepping for events, cake to my Bach, with limited funds && thrown together outfits. I was willing to assist her financially- it’s not about the money. It’s about the principle. She talks A LOT and barely ask me about wedding planning etc…. Again. It’s not always about the money.
2026-04-29 14:51:57
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headintheclouds2025 :
Which is absolutely ridiculous because folks want a community and want you to show up for them. But when it’s your time, folks don’t want to center you. Now that I’m in this season, I’m praying for friends I can show up for and they can show up for me
2026-06-15 00:35:25
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Lyn :
True friends show up even if it means they put themselves out. Shows where your friendship actually lies. Disappointing when you show up in 10 fold
2026-04-27 17:59:30
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smiley :
Very few people will show up for you. They will actually be jealous. They will not even congratulate you. I only invited genuine people to my wedding who I know their true feelings.
2026-05-30 15:32:19
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Gabby DeMoro :
This is such a true take
2026-04-25 00:07:24
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kbessai :
I haven’t asked anyone for anything…. Just to rsvp and stop asking me who’s invited
2026-06-05 04:45:07
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Slytherinchica0621 :
Yes, 🙏 everyone deserves respect and everyone is human it goes both ways!!!
2026-04-25 00:13:22
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Steph | 2026 Bride :
Guttural feeling is a very good way to put it!
2026-04-27 13:57:01
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Shireen :
I think a lot of this makes sense as a 2026 bride!!! I did save the dates 1.5 years out, and invited out a little under a year out. Let’s just say I figured out really quick from my RSVPs who cared enough to let us know and who “forgot”
2026-04-27 17:22:54
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Victoria :
I love this take!!! Very well said🤏🏻🤏🏻
2026-04-28 02:25:36
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Garden Girlie Mac 🇨🇦🌷 :
discernment 👌
2026-04-29 21:53:38
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Alessandra Rossi :
100% agree with this 🤍
2026-04-25 09:33:46
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keelie.shuck :
yes this!!!!!!!
2026-04-28 16:56:54
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keelie.shuck :
just went through this
2026-04-28 16:57:11
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marykatesmenu :
Yes.
2026-04-27 10:13:03
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Brittany Tackett :
I expected nobody to do anything. NOTHING. I did it all myself. I did learn, nobody cared to want to help either. So there’s that.
2026-06-10 20:07:50
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Nouveau_ :
Why am I going through this with my family. I don’t even expect anything from my friends, but it’s been the loneliest time
2026-06-15 19:03:37
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swvaknits :
cost cost cost
2026-06-21 18:13:07
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Safina | Medicine & Lifestyle :
It has genuinely been the wildest year of my life and I feel so seen by this content! I am such a cheerleader for my friends and feel so secure in my life and my wedding has just brought out the crazy in people! The wedding planning itself has been the least stressful part lol
2026-04-25 13:16:29
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