@liya.lovess: real love requires effort, growth, and mutual commitment💛

𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗶𝘀𝗹𝗲𝘄𝗶𝘀_☦️ :

You’re right. But Being patient, respectful, and loving doesn’t mean accepting disrespect, inconsistency, or being taken for granted. Real growth in a relationship happens when both people are actually trying, not when one person keeps pushing limits while the other just endures it. Everyone has a point where they have to step back from something they care about if it’s no longer healthy for them. Love is meant to be kind, patient, and steady but it also has to come with effort, clarity, reassurance, and mutual respect so both people feel valued, not drained. Most people use this perception as a guilt trip but it goes both ways you can’t stay in a fire because you love it, that don’t change that fact it will burn you. Hope I was able to help someone and walking away from something you care about and love is not very easy it never will be because you truly cared. It’s on them and how they take it and that would be your real answer what happens after the relationship don’t mean to continue trying to bond it means actually growing yourself not giving them reasons and leading them on to start again.

🫀 :

Sometimes separating from each other and taking space is what's needed for the relationship. You can still love them, but love can turn into resentment when you don't give each other the space that is needed.

rox 𖣂 :

sometimes its not that simple

KK 🩷 :

so was it never real.

Vicu :

I was born in the wrong generation I fear🥲

The man the myth the legend :

Love is complicated and one of the hardest things you’ll do in your life sometimes you or your partner will have to make decisions neither of you will like, but remember in relationships you have to look after yourself as well as the other person within the relationship. Cause once you start not focusing on yourself and your mental health is when you lose yourself. As someone who has been in a few relationships and has loved and been loved, the second you let yourself go is when It comes crashing down. After my most recent relationship I started focusing on myself and became myself again not the person I was portraying for so many years. That person I didn’t even recognise and that’s what hurt me the most even with all the hurtful and hatful things that were said to me over those years.

lia 🦇 :

he broke up with me 2 days ago because he just can’t be in a relationship right now. he promised me to go to therapy etc and fix his problems and that he truly loves me and wished he could be with me. and that maybe in a few months we could try again. but i know he only said that so i wouldn’t be sad. i know that if he doesn’t want a relationship right now, he won’t in half a year. it hurts so much and i can’t deal with the fact that i’ll NEVER see him, touch him or talk to him ever again. i loved him so much i don’t know what to do without him.

B4lint :

put this on HER fyp

Lynn | PMU & Brow Specialist :

I can only meet you as far as you respect me.

<3 :

literally like wtf, i was willing to stay and be patient for her but she just up and left even though i was the one doing all the work, it was so one sided. if she genuinely needed a break i would have happily taken one aswell but instead she just lied about why she needed a break didnt give me any say then just blocked me🫩 22 months down the drain

v31415926 :

last week my bf told me he couldnt stay with me bc I got chronically ill and it is too much for him. Never felt so alone in my life

Invader GIR :

Love requires both people choosing to evolve in the relationship and continue to be able to be held accountable if only one person is choosing to change into a better person then love ca only do so much

mquuootes :

Preach! Timing is crazy

Key :

vaughn泛仁 :

asked for reassurance, got called insecure 🔥

Zisan_freeride𒉭🥊 :

she told me that like half a month ago. guess what happened this morning

nikita.nhr :

Lalaya :

What if I can no longer believe that we can be together, because when everything was fine and we seemed to have solved all the problems, he broke down and started remembering old grievances

essie :

He just broke up with me and I asked him if he ever loved me and this was his response “ I think I loved being loved more then anything else”

Guapo🤧 :

Sometimes it isn’t always going to be like that. You both need to have this mindset for it to happen. If your partner doesn’t feel this way nothing will change. And because you do you end up staying with them and keep getting disappointed by their actions and the cycle continues. Leave when you know nothing is going change before you get stuck, waiting for them to become a better person

Jojo :

She left me while telling me she still loves me. Thats the only reason I cant get over it

𐙚𝓰𝓲𝓷𝓰𝓮𝓻𝜗ৎ :

Chose her friends over me even thought I craved her attention so desperately

Ava :

It’s not that simple

#1 collector kinnie‼ :

oh god i miss her so bad i just want her back