As a FA once my trust is broken, even if the relationship doesn’t end right then, it means it will definitely end one day. Because when I trust someone, I get attached with the innocence of a child. Betrayal poisons that innocence completely. Even if I want to forgive, I feel like I’m walking around with a knife in my back.
2026-04-26 05:55:40
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Jay Teo :
It’s not that they have wounds, everyone has wounds. The problem comes when they naturally think it’s your problem to fix it for them and if you can’t, it’s not their fault they can’t open up.
2026-04-25 13:26:21
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sfenton001 :
I am an FA and when I get triggered, very very shamefully, I see my partner my source of fear like a bullying, And, I also get the ick. I feel as if my distorted thoughts and triggering feelings will ever dissipate
2026-04-26 04:09:47
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IKnowWhoiAm :
How come during my 9 year marriage I didn't have to do these things - over analyze, leave and come back, got triggered but then I get into my next relationship and I was doing a lot of these things? My ex wife learned my behaviors and knew how to not be offended by them. Everything was great until she cheated. The next relationship my fearful Avoidant came out like crazy because she gave me reason to question thing early on. I tried not to focus on those feelings - because I know how I can be, but I was right, she was talking to her ex the last 4 months of our relationship then got with him in person and cheated. So I'll stick to what my gut tells me. Women need to keep their legs closed. Most women complaining are the ones not willing to put in the work to understand them because if they did, they wouldn't take what we did as offense. I let my guard down letting go of what it was that had me questioning things. I got burnt again.
I was also diagnosed as having inattentive ADHD and anxiety disorder which was my biggest issue. Once treated I am much better off. Still working on self. It's much easier to work on myself because I finally have a name and reason to what I felt my whole life. Healing is possible
2026-04-27 14:01:01
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Serena💥♎️🇮🇹🇬🇧🇪🇸🇫🇷💫 :
FA here, our logic is - if my own parents are not trustworthy and can't love me, no one will and no one is to be trusted 100% . Love expects something from us and we may try to give it to you but we truly believe we are defective because our vulnerability is linked to our shame. Our parents have shamed us for who we are. There is no fixing this unless we try therapy and exposure of our own vulnerability
2026-04-27 12:21:26
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cookies&crime :
apologies dont mean anything without actionable and provable change. connections dont make sense unless there is practical change, not verbal reassurances and promises of future intangibles.
2026-04-26 22:45:10
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Arya Ambrose :
the moment i live with someone and they become like "familly" is the moment i cannot feel safe anymore. Especially with chronic illness and disabillity, my wellbeing depends on whoever i live with and it makes consent invalid due to the power dynamic. The best way for any attachment style to be healthy in a relationship is to have access to safety and to work on creating it with themselves too. Love can't fix it but support and tools to have them get there can do a very big difference. Someone's situation matter's a lot with how their attachment style shows up
2026-04-27 15:13:22
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🦊 :
Its also called "Splitting"
2026-04-25 14:19:15
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greenwriter92 :
What do you have that could possibly help here?
2026-04-26 17:25:50
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Judge___Holden :
This is so true. Also, your hair is spectacular!
2026-04-24 23:26:55
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RichardSilvia973 :
I believe I am this person and I dont want to be. please help
2026-04-29 20:50:08
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Steve :
help
2026-05-22 16:42:32
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Gannon :
Help
2026-04-29 18:33:06
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STOfarms :
Help
2026-04-25 00:02:03
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Grace :
Help
2026-05-23 01:16:24
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Trent Merkle :
Help!!!
2026-04-25 11:33:51
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butterman :
Help
2026-05-05 01:09:59
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Edwin2809 :
Help
2026-05-07 16:27:05
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Lungi :
Walk away
2026-04-27 18:53:57
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BigRobbo999 :
help
2026-04-27 19:32:43
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Help
2026-04-28 07:55:03
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Help
2026-04-28 00:58:17
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Blazeriley69 :
help
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help
2026-04-28 17:32:09
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Scott Bradshaw :
Help please
2026-05-05 23:35:38
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