This is a strategy for surviving a moment with them. These moments happen frequently and often. The simple thing is - they have to want to go to therapy and figure this out themselves. And I have found, over the 6 years we tried in our relationship, that even in therapy, they didn’t want to do that work. Maybe there’s a spectrum of avoidance but I had to leave for my own mental health and safety. It’s sad because I truly loved them but I now recognize I was loving a future (healthier) version of them that never materialized. That was toxic of me, truthfully.
2026-04-29 01:46:30
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Rdftb. :
I didn’t understand the end of what you said “this is what happens now, later, think big picture” can you explain please 🙏🏽
2026-05-23 18:28:50
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The Blessing Report :
Leave and break up cause this is bad advice
2026-04-25 14:03:08
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CeeMeeeeee :
Cool but I married one and have kids
2026-05-02 04:00:48
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Ayaverareyhan :
yea its just not correct to put that much energy into someone else and knowing when to what tracking all of that costs so much time energy and focus we dont have that time and energy in life, its not correct to put that much for another we have to put that into our own life
2026-04-25 00:52:52
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firelilly :
I hate this and want to quit
2026-04-24 23:31:53
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user40377098167448 :
Drew, I dont know why but i couldnt follow this one-can your recap it for me or put it simpler?
2026-04-26 05:30:03
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MissFrenchie🇨🇦 :
I say: 'I will not be participating in that discussion anymore. We can revisit when it can be done respectfully.'
2026-04-26 01:38:58
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AnitasGiftStore :
Here’s what I would do…
2026-05-02 01:20:13
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