@notyouraverageminister: A lot of women ask for consistency and intentionality, but some aren’t even consistent or intentional with themselves. Some desire a man to show up for them in ways they haven’t learned to show up for themselves. You can’t expect a man to fill a void in a place you haven’t even poured into. A man should not be 100% responsible for filling your cup. You have to be intentional about doing what you need to do for you, so when he does his part, it adds to you. His love should be a bonus, not your source. #Love #Trust #Healthy #Purpose #Relationship