@hopeaporo: nobody tells you this, but… when you start seeing things clearly your whole life feels a bit off and then you have to choose: A. pretend nothing changed and go back to what’s comfortable B. stay in that weird in-between where nothing really feels right anymore C. start rebuilding your life slowly even if no one gets it D. act like everything’s fine but feel disconnected inside E. trust that feeling even if it changes everything most people choose A and call it stability