@rewirewithrach: i’m gonna be so real with you right now.. This is the part that SO many people miss and wonder why the dynamic keeps repeating. Loving someone and missing them is not a good enough reason to reconnect.. Sorry not sorry… reconnection ONLY works if the relationship becomes safer than it was before it broke. Not more intense. Not more emotional. Not more hopeful. More stable, intentional, and accountable. Need more clarity and support navigating your specific dynamic? I can help. Let’s dive into this in a 1:1 call together ✅ LINK IN BIO #breakup #relationshiptok #attachmentstyle #rewirewithrach #fypシ
as a fearful avoidant, just don’t even try, once it’s gotten to that point the trust has been broken on both ends
2026-04-25 21:08:02
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Michael :
what you're describing is unbelievably rare and I don't think people should be optimistic that this can happen easily. you're essentially saying that the FA should have healed his attachment style before you commit. that's like impossible unless you reconnect after years and by then, would you want them back? FAs don't just jump from hot and cold behaviors, inconsistency, not taking accountability to accepting clear boundaries and willing to compromise - it just doesn't happen
2026-04-28 14:02:04
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Mr. Pibb :
don't.
2026-04-25 20:58:43
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user24941022856870 :
this is great! for two people reconnecting after 3+ months and taking it slow - do you recommend any of the cards games that prompt questions or no? trying to keep it light until we get to the place that this conversation you’re discussing can be had..
2026-04-25 23:13:15
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Sandra walsh :
DONT DO IT MOVE ON ITS GREAT YOU WILL BE FREE FROM THEIR BULL
2026-04-26 07:05:48
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K3yhol3r :
this is all new to me, i have been involved with an avoidant and listening to you is very helpful. i have so
2026-04-27 00:10:50
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lutherlufay :
there's no going back to that
2026-04-27 22:10:02
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Christopher 🌀✨ :
Walked away from my avoidant two days ago. Grateful for her but... It was time.
2026-04-27 06:06:51
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Emanuel :
they are just too immature for conversations like this. Or they were never that much into you. accept the lesson be grateful for the experience and move on. allow better connection to come while going through this and understanding yourself better. love to all of you ✨
2026-05-16 13:00:29
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Liz Lopez 🤍 :
I’m done. So emotionally exhausted.
2026-04-27 04:27:48
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beth :
can you share more on the direction we can think of for the question you just suggested
2026-04-26 15:33:52
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bob :
Had that conversation and still he left again
2026-04-25 21:51:23
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Banana Bean :
Girl he texted if i wanted to talk after a month of no contact, i said yes, and — nothing. It‘s been week.
2026-04-26 17:38:25
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Georgia Lee :
Better have something really specific to say
2026-04-27 08:06:47
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traviepz5o3 :
Should I send this to her? 🥺🥺🥺
2026-04-25 20:56:21
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Sean Benjamin :
#3 is the toughest thing to implement 💯
2026-04-25 21:10:51
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Cesar :
If the FA broke it it’s for them to repair but you won’t get that without accountability because that comes with vulnerability & being seen which again is their deep fear.
2026-04-25 22:05:38
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Lilian K :
I don't, he traumatized me
2026-04-26 09:40:07
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Corey 🇨🇦 :
🙏
2026-04-25 22:10:42
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