Elly | Counseling Psychologist
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Monday 27 April 2026 07:35:00 GMT
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maritamja :
What if they keep hurting you the same way over and over because they don't get it? Feels like a pattern, and it breaks me down😔
2026-04-27 19:33:59
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Iddi :
Please also give yourself permission to say you are hurt, tired, annoyed etc to the person in a causal tone. Yesterday I told my husband that I was tired of him undercutting my point regarding childrens upbringing. It was the first time saying it, and it felt good not to hold it in.
2026-04-28 05:49:52
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Tas :
If they keep hurting you walk away take a break in relationship
2026-05-01 06:40:06
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Margot Wegman :
you let them walk out of your house! You have to love yourself enough to not accept this. ❤️
2026-04-27 19:13:12
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Lauren Maria :
My dad is exactly like this with me, I know that he has no malice but it doesn’t stop the pain. He always apologises & I have understanding but it doesn’t make it hurt any less.
2026-04-27 08:02:07
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SaraAnna444 :
I think he knows he just doesnt want to accept it 😔
2026-04-27 08:42:09
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Petra Founder of The Sht Club :
This is a beautiful post!! Thank you!🥰 So many people need to feel and hear this. If you life with an emotional unavailable human, it can truly bring you down. But awareness of their incapacity vs lack of love or care…is essential for survival. And as you say…seek other available resources for support! 😍😍😍huge hugs p
2026-04-27 17:33:18
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DJ :
Yep she never got it. It was always my fault. And I was becoming a shadow of my former self. So I broke and left
2026-04-27 16:10:25
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s0undz🎚️🔊 :
If you tell them, they know.
2026-04-28 05:04:24
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caroleharris5 :
JUST WALK AWAY
2026-04-30 19:15:26
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jen.vens :
You walk away to protect yourself
2026-04-27 18:45:28
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MamaDee 🏴 :
Hardest decision.... working out if the good times outweigh the bad.
2026-04-27 23:27:21
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tessa pasquariello :
my mum .she passed now
2026-04-27 17:31:52
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WestCoastbestcoast :
thankyou
2026-05-13 06:31:36
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TheDonG :
Lady. you are really beautiful
2026-04-27 15:32:24
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audiq53 :
He knew exactly what he was doing. Had no choice but to leave him, even then he didn’t even say let’s try to fix it
2026-04-27 16:06:34
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stuartcallaghan :
Many may choose getting that support in another relationship through frustration and the harsh treatment they have been enduring silently..Now there's more issues going forward especially if there are children involved..and family...?
2026-05-05 22:48:14
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brassbandchaos :
It’s worse knowing they new and did nothing to stop hurting you! I always thought they didn’t understand, but when asking for a divorce I found out they did understand, just never did anything because I stayed! It was easier for them to keep hurting me than working on themselves!
2026-06-04 08:44:08
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Christina Mattin :
They always know they just don’t care then you don’t care harder
2026-04-27 19:56:24
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Ummizaiah :
What if when you bring up that you’re hurt they tell you you’re selfish and the world doesn’t revolve around you
2026-04-28 16:48:24
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Miss Panser :
How can you tell if they do it on purpose or genuinely don’t realize?
2026-04-28 16:16:45
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🎗o_r1234 :
And what if this person who can't see me and is hurting me is the whole family?
2026-05-04 21:09:59
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Kayleigh :
im just giving up now and planning my escape
2026-04-28 04:24:35
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Louisa Smith :
You leave 🤝
2026-04-30 05:24:09
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JJ :
with a daughter??
2026-04-27 08:17:01
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