Courtney Evans
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Sarah :
Just because I carry it well doesn’t mean it’s not heavy
2026-04-28 02:23:13
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mother of duck :
Billy bob Thornton did a lovely bit on grief
2026-04-27 15:23:46
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jfishOR :
As someone who lost their father 16 years ago, who still carries that with them today…this is such an incredible analogy. The weight is lighter now than it was in 2010, but I sure as shit still feel it.
2026-04-27 22:05:22
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Lauren Leigh :
I’ve been grieving my dad for the last 24 yrs and this is the BEST analogy for grief I’ve ever heard. If 13 yr old me knew how well I was able to carry this, she’d never believe it 😭
2026-04-28 01:03:24
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amandareow :
The pain doesn’t go away, you just grow the strength to carry the weight
2026-04-27 23:17:56
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Dirt Cobain :
I lost the only person that cared about me 10 years ago. I still cry about her like it was yesterday. I fear I’m not getting stonger
2026-04-30 00:41:37
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rybees2 :
Weight never goes away. You just learn to hold it.
2026-04-27 20:17:26
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Cathy Dunbar Ahlers :
This- 100 percent
2026-04-26 23:55:50
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dressed_2kill :
Same here really loved this explanation !
2026-04-29 13:40:52
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Vaughna🫶 :
It doesn’t get better, just a different way of living
2026-04-28 02:00:01
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. :
Oh wow that’s incredible
2026-04-28 23:45:55
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Alisha Barnett Blant :
Thi is a perfect explanation
2026-04-28 02:01:40
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Jenn Sass :
Beautifully said
2026-04-30 04:12:05
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K8MINDSET :
It’s still heavy. 🤝✨
2026-04-28 16:40:26
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KaraMarie :
These words 💕 perfectly capture the grief of a parent. It’s been 11 years of grieving my son
2026-04-29 01:06:01
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rae :
Wow this is exactly how it feels. It never goes away 🥺
2026-04-29 00:54:23
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Kayla Sigurbjartsson :
As an angel mama this is the perfect description. Just because I wake up and go to work, have a smile on my face, and live doesn’t mean the grief isn’t heavy. I miss my daughter every day and that weight will be with me always.
2026-04-29 18:46:09
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megisfab ✨🪞🐆 :
This is a heartbreaking but beautiful analogy
2026-04-28 20:20:58
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fauxbe :
You don’t move on, it stays the same and your life grows around it.
2026-04-27 20:47:58
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Poop13 :
the sadness lasts forever
2026-04-28 02:14:05
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Richardson16 :
That’s a great explanation. Greif is something you only understand if you have lost someone you loved. I thought I understood until I lost my son 3 years ago.
2026-04-28 22:36:21
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Steffanie💋 :
I’ve seen this saying all over TikTok. Grief is like glitter. In the beginning, it's everywhere.. on your hands, in your hair, scattered across every corner of your life. You try to clean it up, to restore some sense of order. And for a while, it seems like you've succeeded. But then, one day, you move a sofa or open a forgotten drawer, and there it is again. A tiny sparkle that catches the light and reminds you of what you lost. It doesn't go away completely. It settles, becomes quieter, less overwhelming. You learn to live with it, to carry it gently. And years later, when you find a bit of that glitter tucked behind a shelf, you might smile. Maybe even laugh. Because it reminds you of love, of connection, of someone who mattered deeply. Eventually, something will catch your eye.. a photo, a favorite song, a familiar scent, and instead of pain, you'll feel warmth. That's the quiet truth about grief. It stays with you, but it changes. It becomes a part of your story, a soft echo of the love that never really left.
2026-04-30 17:27:01
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Hannah :
100%. My mom passed away 20 years ago when I was 6 and I still think about her and miss her everyday. My life was forever changed by her passing
2026-04-28 15:10:23
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tattooedmom3🇺🇸❤️🇺🇸 :
100% right lost my twin girls 18 years ago I miss them everyday think of them everyday
2026-04-27 14:34:03
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msalwaysaleo :
My step father died 22 years ago I still cry about it. It never gets better. You just keep pushing
2026-04-28 15:20:09
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