@drbeckyatgoodinside: Sam Altman recently responded to something I said about kids growing up with AI, and I want to share more of my thoughts in this video. Our kids are growing up in a time where there’s a shortcut for almost everything - academic, emotional, social. And over time, those shortcuts make it harder to tolerate frustration, think critically, and do hard things. And here’s the thing: kids won’t choose the harder path on their own. That’s not a flaw. So the answer isn’t just “don’t use AI.” That leads to hiding. Instead, we have to get into the moment with our kids. Plan for the urge. Stay connected. Be the home base they can come to when things feel hard. I’m not anti-tech, anti-progress, or anti-productivity. I happen to love all those things! It’s just that I am also pro-childhood, and I’m pro-human development. If we build a world that requires less and less from children emotionally, the result will be less human connection, less creativity, and a whole host of other problems too. We have to figure out a way to preserve some of the friction in children’s lives, not erase it; to make space for waiting, boredom, effort, disappointment, repair, and real human feedback, rather than assuming increased ease and productivity is a predictor of healthy human development. I’m curious about your thoughts. Drop them below!
Dr. Becky | Psychologist
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Sunday 26 April 2026 19:35:00 GMT
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ishoutedmyjoy :
You’re right, he’s missing the point or not understanding you
2026-04-26 20:57:19
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matthuffman317 :
Dr. Becky > Sam Altman
2026-05-05 20:49:27
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Nickels Is Money Too :
Yeah but that's harder for Sam Altman and other AI companies to profit off of.
2026-04-26 20:59:52
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California Barbie :
Sam Altman doesn’t even think literature or history matters and that we should all live in outer space. I take nothing he says seriously
2026-04-27 05:15:09
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Nick Cutroneo :
He spun the narrative and purposefully didn’t answer your point, because 💰
2026-04-27 15:18:34
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Hurricane Erin :
I 100% agree Dr. Becky.
2026-04-26 20:34:58
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catiehorseman :
You go dr Becky!
2026-04-27 15:08:41
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Moos n mews :
Solving a hard homework problem used to be a social assignment - Berkeley student told me in my customer discovery interview. But now they just use AI tools - impacting learning, grounding of concepts and social
2026-05-24 00:28:37
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sabrinaaabee :
To me this sounds like a problem the schools need to solve…not Sam
2026-04-28 14:16:34
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Just Jess :
analog is where its at ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️teach kids to be analog ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
2026-04-28 05:50:45
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culturecrush :
Sam’s job is to make money for his investors. He’s not to be taken seriously by the rest of us
2026-04-27 22:55:10
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nnaahhsr :
100% I hope the pushback and guardrails do not take as long with ai as it did for social media (15+ years)
2026-04-27 00:29:48
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jjjenniferme :
Thank you for speaking up!
2026-04-26 22:18:37
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callejera :
yes. AI doesn't allow kids to struggle. to problem solve... to get inspired ... id AI gives you the answer.
2026-06-07 20:47:44
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Mr.Karen :
The irony of using AI to write your script for this video is crazy. I agree with your stance but I think that there is still something to be said about usage of AI and adult cognition as well so you are weakening your argument.
2026-04-27 20:00:01
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misskaystirastory :
I agree 💯 it’s the critical thinking piece. It’s scary how people aren’t seeing that the thinking process is the point. Love your work!
2026-04-27 03:14:07
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🍉 Save Greta Thunburg Now 🍉 :
hey look ma we made it
2026-04-27 12:21:44
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CMO MUA :
Sounds like maybe he needs to learn some of these skills
2026-05-19 13:13:48
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Joe H :
Not the point of this account but tangentially adults are better than kids at making long term decisions/plans but we’re not very good at it either so this is a concern for adults too.
2026-04-28 19:06:21
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stillbirthmom :
Parenting without boundaries aka safeguards isnt parenting at all
2026-04-27 15:31:45
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Frank :
Yes!!! 💯
2026-04-26 20:40:46
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Moos n mews :
The socio-economic impact and the way learning happens via social bonding and human communication is all getting impacted in unalterable ways.
2026-05-24 00:26:43
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Andrew :
I'm not buying that there's a shortcut to everything. We'll just face new challenges. For instance, I'm building a tool with AI in a few months on my own as a non engineer that my entire dev team previously couldn't do in 6 years. There's still plenty of frustration and strategic decisions that need to be made.
2026-06-05 10:02:08
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JT🇼🇸 🧬 🇳🇿📍🛸 :
As a teacher. I see it.
2026-05-11 01:02:14
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