@urfatbigsis: Being chosen by a man is not the reward you get for being a good woman. Decentering men actually means decentering being CHOSEN - to prove your worth, to soothe insecurity, to show the world that your one of the deserving ones. It might feel good temporarily, but it’s a shaky foundation to lay all your self-worth on #decentermen #datinginyour30s #relationships #datingmen #selfworth

Unique :

Thank you I needed to hear this ❤️❤️

Gabby P :

THISSSSSS, it all started with my mother wound. Im actively healing it and learning that I don’t need to be chosen. That I’m choosing myself, because the most important thing is to love myself. Forgiving myself and forgiving my mom for not being able to show up for me in a way I needed growing up. It’s such a process, it’s painful but so beautiful!

meggiestacks 📚🦋🪩 :

hey, I LOVE THIS

The Pleasure Witch✨🍉 :

Truly 🙏

Bree 💕✨ :

THISSSS

user5274261623566 :

Mo💫 :

YESSS. THIS 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

colinparkerj :

Thank you ❤️

leb :

Thank you for making this vjdeo!!

kpothegreat :

I needed to hear this… thank you💕

Tory O :

thank you!!! 🥰

Valerchitessa 🌈🇨🇦🇺🇦🇵🇸 :

normalise telling us how 😭 people keep telling me to stop wanting to be chosen but like I cant choose to ??? ive never been loved my need to be lived is a whole ahh black hole it has no bottom

carly g 🌟 :

Hit me where it hurts why don’t ya

_itsjust_bri :

Me coming to a realization that I never wanted to be in a relationship just wanted to feel loved/chosen. I put my worth/ value in a man choosing me. So yes basically what you said thank you!

user89 :

How do we unlearn it??

Ollie’s world :

💯💯💯💯

Liel Anisenko :

😳😳😳