theelliebarker
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GOOGLE :
The same boiling water that softens the potato, hardens the egg
2026-04-27 07:51:12
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мαяα☕︎₊˚🌱🌀 :
FR it’s an explanation but NEVER an excuse!
2026-04-26 22:12:43
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Scott_cooke0 :
such a privileged thing to say
2026-05-02 01:49:27
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hannah ⚯͛ :
Lizzie and Gibsie
2026-04-28 03:03:52
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bellie :
please understand that everyone deals with their emotions and trauma differently
2026-04-28 23:57:04
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//Lia// :
I understand, but as an once empath I can say that we dont get to judge how people deal with their emotions and trauma.
2026-04-28 22:51:51
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Kenzie😽 :
TRAUMA IS AN EXPLANATION; NOT AN EXCUSE!!
2026-04-29 13:39:06
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BIGGSERG :
yes it is
2026-04-29 18:57:15
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ella.in.disguise :
Most relatable person on TikTok
2026-04-26 21:52:34
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leah (taylor's version) :
literally wrote my college essay about this
2026-04-29 08:56:40
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⃟ :
Ppl deal with trauma differently.
2026-05-11 12:30:43
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shhhitsasecret190 :
It is not our fault for the trauma we are given, but it is our responsibility to deal with it so we don’t project on other people
2026-04-29 05:20:54
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Brooklynn :
A hard past is a reason not an excuse
2026-04-29 01:49:06
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mys☕ :
I saw a similar content and someone said "the same water that hardens the egg, softens the potato"
2026-04-27 04:05:59
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Twilight's Doppelganger :
Does it explain it? Yes. Does it excuse it? No.
2026-04-29 19:27:45
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bulletproof :
you're absolutely correct
2026-04-29 18:16:55
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sanqooz :
I don’t need any excuses to be a bad person. I am who I am
2026-04-30 19:40:38
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𝓔𝓂𝒾 🎀✨ :
I’ve been the kindest person ever, and still had a messed up childhood, with bullying, being chronic sick, growing up in a tiring household and all that shi stuff. AND STILL I’m the kindest person ever, and I STILL get treated LIKE SHI these days! So NO being treated badly isn’t an excuse, to make you think you can treat or do wtvr you want with others! You can still choose to be the kind person, and not the bad ass mean one! Like..why do I feel I’m almost the only one who do this? Like..wtf😭🙏
2026-04-30 06:10:27
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read_with_hope📚 :
sometimes people take advantage of kindness and that’s upsetting
2026-04-27 22:24:07
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masonjordan68 :
Reposting knowing I’m a bad person.
2026-04-29 19:39:48
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Jamie🕷️🕸️ :
I chose to include people because I was excluded. They chose to exclude because they were excluded. We aren’t the same.
2026-05-01 15:25:01
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Mermaid Agnes🧜♀️✞︎🇻🇦💍🩷✝️ :
People deal with trauma diffrent.
2026-04-29 19:36:57
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🍓 :
THANK YOU
2026-05-12 01:46:26
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bre 🦴 :
love the way u view life
2026-04-30 15:51:36
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