@the_control_code: If an abusive, deeply entitled man discarded you for another woman, do not automatically confuse replacement with loss. Katherine of Aragon was discarded. Anne Boleyn was chosen. Anne was also beheaded. The same entitlement that says, “I deserve someone new,” can be the same entitlement that eventually says, “I decide your fate.” Being chosen by a dangerous man is not the prize. Sometimes “winning” just means you were next. #megantheestallion #CoerciveControl #KnowTheSigns #narcissist

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Catherine and Anne of Cleves were royal by birth and foreign princess. Henrys court wouldn't have allowed him to behead them. it would meant starting a war. His treatment of Anne Boleyn and Catherine Howard were 100% straight out of abuser textbook. you see abusers true self when he thinks he is of higher status than you

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Susie 💜 :

I wish I could tell woman that it’s such a blessing in disguise. 💗✨

vdiannemarshall2 :

Romeo was a fuck boy!! He dumped Rosalind because she would have sex with him!!!

ProseEdda :

And in the beginning, she didn’t want him, either

Kinsey :

Grieving the discard AND so thankful for the blessing of being removed from this

musketeer :

the rejection is god's protection

Refuse To Regret :

I like to remind people he was a Gemini Venus 😅

Lucy :

Tale as old as time!!!!

je.suis.noelle :

Don’t forget Charles and Diana — Diana literally wrote before her death that she was afraid someone was going to kill her in a car accident and make it look like a genuine accident

hitman.ford :

waittttr this just really changed my perspective

Anonymous Aardvark :

Scary when you are excited to be Anne and not Catherine, but then learn how the story ends

Lolitaforevel :

Needed to hear this thanks 💯

SummerSpice💖 :

I needed to hear this

Jean-Marie Hammett✍🏻 :

Not The Prize at all. 💯

A :

He just blocked me after I ask for reassurance and he called me the b word and paranoid . This perspective and video help

✨HonestDee✨ :

Thank you. I really needed to hear this today.

DivineTings :

He was very selfish! It was never about the woman!

Zia :

I love this perspective. I wish i had heard it 6 years ago.

zazzlegirl :

I was grieving, not now. 😳

Laura | Healing FA :

Thank you for your immensely valuable content.

DelynnAd :

my mom said she was related to this line.