@stephanne221: Why do guys not ask questions on the first date? Let’s take a chaotic deep dive into it from a nervous system + attachment system perspective in less than a min 🤠🤠 There are, of course, many more factors at play for when folks struggle to get curious. Other reasons include: ➡️ if he/they came from an authoritarian household that discouraged questions and promoted rule-following ➡️ men are socialized ~to know~ rather than ~to ask~ ➡️ his/their nervous system feels safer in silence, invisibility, or would prefer someone else to step in ➡️ little practice in this area = social skills deficit ➡️ is historically spared of feedback (like receiving praise or a pass when feedback was warranted) ➡️ is caught in a shame-storm 🌪️ ➡️ is actually genuinely disinterested and is congruently signalling disinterest And 9 million other things under the sun because humans are complex. But partnering with someone who has a nervous system that feels safe to YOU and like it can support your heart building a home there, that's what matters. Fight for that bestie, or I'll fight for it for you both when ya'll come into my office. Either way rooting for you!! 🤪🫶🏻 🔹Ps from the fan account: @aurellasz 🔹And to be clear, I don’t know anything about this couple and wish them peace and safety! 🔹Video clip being used to extrapolate overall dating dynamics, not a commentary on this specific couple #nervoussystemhealing #datingtips #emotionalintelligence #relationshiptips #firstdate

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