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dee :
I think some people missed the point of my post. It wasn't about the grades; it was about the lack of choice. People see 'IPG' and think I’m ungrateful, but they don’t see the pressure of having your future decided for you. And just for the record, not getting an A+ doesn't mean I wasn't good at what I loved. Passion isn't always defined by a grade on a certificate..parents always say they 'know best,' but it's the kids who have to endure the misery of living a life they never wanted. It’s so hard to stay motivated when you have no interest in what you're doing. But honestly, if this is where I'm meant to be, I’ll strive to be the best educator I can be, just so I can support my students to reach their own dreams without being controlled by others. I don't want them to feel as trapped as I do right now.
2026-04-28 22:47:46
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disappearby24thofoct :
org lain takut gagal, kita takut pass :)
2026-04-28 05:54:18
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NurHana :
Sy pun pernah mcm adik. Tp i decide to follow my parents' decision for their sake. Have never been happier. 🌷
2026-06-06 03:08:09
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ayie. :
hello wak. nak ceritaaaa. dulu lps spm, my mom forced me to be a teacher, bcs it was her dream. bila dpt masuk ipg, i was forced to quit engineering (my dream) 💔 now i dah jadi cikgu, but the regret for not standing up to myself is still there. until today, i still blame my mother whenever i got too tired from being a teacher 🫠 hehe sorry mama, i love u, but adik menyesal until now 🥲💔
2026-04-28 08:30:57
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Is :
yg lgi sedihnya, org yg tknk dpt, org yg beria nk tk dpt..
2026-04-28 08:46:25
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mìraaacle :
jangan jadi guru kalau tak minat. you will be exhausted dan kesian anak murid nanti. im a teacher itself. it was a tough career
2026-04-29 03:10:08
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dina :
aku buat je asalkan mak aku tak kecewa dengan aku. kelakar kan? orang lain mohon sini sebab dorang minat and nak jadi cg tapi aku? sebab tanak kecewakan mak aku..
2026-04-28 08:16:54
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2yyinnn :
even tho I don't have a dream but definitely becoming a teacher was not my dream😞😞
2026-04-28 05:06:11
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lovkinah💛 :
If you're still not in IPG, or still hasn't signed the contract. Please don't do this. Take this from someone that has 10yr of tcg exp. I REPEAT DON'T DO THIS. Choose yourself. I choose this as this is what I want. BUT if you have other dream, if you know what you want to do, please pursue. Learn from an early age to chase after your dreams. You're so young, you can do so many things. CHOOSE YOURSELF! Your parents will be dissolved or mad for a while, but if you choose something you resent, you will live with this for the rest of your life. DON'T DO THAT TO YOURSELF. Please awal2 ni la kena bljr melawan pilih what u want, klau dah terbiasa ikut je, some day you will lose yourself. Don't do it ok 🙏
2026-04-28 09:14:24
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Lunastra🌙 :
Chasing someone else's dream is so real. I wanted to take Art/Animation/and Graphic design. But parents wouldn't allow me, cuz they said it wasn't that demanded job back in 2019 and year before that 🙂 So they forced me to take TESL just bcuz my English result is good (SPM almost straight A's). But I'm not comfortable with it cuz i have hard times speaking even in BM. Speaking and talking is not my forte 😌 And here i am almost finishing my Masters at 25 y/o, and also I'm taking JLPT so that i can teach Eng in Japan. In improvising my dreams. Funny how I had to toss away my old talent (drawing) that I have learned since I was small, just for a new one that i don't have passion of 🙂 Im going to Japan this May for training. Pray for me 💓
2026-04-29 02:30:44
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aylaa :
I can relate 😭😭 everyone around me suggest I untuk sambung cikgu sbb nmpk mcm i sesuai jadi cikgu . I apply ipg jugak and dpt ukcg.. Cuma i takut klau I akan menyesal jadi cikgu bcs I tk rasa I betul2 ada passion untuk jadi cikgu.. rn I tunggu tawaran lain dulu🥰
2026-04-28 03:06:55
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KaTT :
To new parents, dont force your child to follow your dreams. its their life not yours. Please break the cycle🥹
2026-04-28 10:00:54
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xcxfgehhd :
may all of u who is chasing ur parents dreams can chase your own instead amiin, doakan saya lulus ukcg saya mmg nak sgt” msuk ipg 😭
2026-04-28 09:41:42
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saturn🪐 :
I take offence whenever ppl told me to be a teacher bcs of that quote, “those who can, do. Those who can’t, teach.”
2026-04-28 17:48:40
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zyq ☆ :
kita pun ada hak untuk tentukan sendiri masa depan kita
2026-04-28 07:16:42
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mata duitan :
its better to rebel and choose pathway yg you sendiri nak. i chose med bcs of family too before, miserable teruk and finally had the courage to quit after working as a houseman for 6 months. mental teruk. now tgh otw nak jd cg while doing business. trust me, loving what you do is very important if you want to take care of your mental health in the future. mmg la org kata work life balance or whatever, but its undeniable yg you spend the majority of your adult life working. i hope you the best dik
2026-06-05 07:35:06
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meong :
kenapa ramai mak ayah nak sangat anak jadi cikgu eh? ramai cikgu sekolah saya bukan jadi cikgu tu cita2 asal diorang, memang diorang hidup selesa bila dah jadi cikgu tetap tapi mm tahla kadang ada cikgu yang masih tak redha dengan keadaan dia sampai jadi pemarah
2026-04-28 22:57:44
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losersatte :
guys, pls, kalau tak minat, jngn la apply, kesian org lain yg betul" nak tpi xdpt sbb org yg x nak ni :(
2026-04-29 02:23:43
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shaa :
in my opinion, do whatever it takes to fail the interview kalau memang tak minat. kalau u dah mess up the iv but still got accepted to IPG then it is your fate. untuk apa strive your best untuk sesuatu yang u yakin u tak ada passion? your parents may be dissapointed tapi apa yang lepas tetap akan berlalu. you have to think about other people yang betul ii minat tapi tak dapat sebab you dapat. saya pun ada kawan yang sama tak minat jadi cikgu, sampai sekarang tak minat. end up depress dan susah untuk sesuaikan diri. everytime dia rasa nak giveup, dia akan kata aku taknak pun jadi cikgu. bukan semua orang dapat peluang tu. jadi kalau memang taknak tak payah usaha pun untuk dapat, you are wasting your time.
2026-04-30 08:50:26
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Mellon :
Sorry i tak dapat read the room here. Cuma tertanya komen2 banyak ni semua dalam situasi yang sama kan, kenapa mohon jadi guru kalau jiwa pendidik tu memang takda? What if yang takda jiwa pendidik ni lulus, yakin ke nak mendidik pelajar2 dekat sekolah nanti? Nak jadi cikgu ni tanggungjawab yang besar yaa. Kita MENDIDIK untuk generasi akan datang. Saya harap awak2 yang mengalami situasi ni bila lulus usahakan la ye buat yang terbaik untuk anak didik kita. Ingat tanggungjawab ni besar 🤍
2026-04-28 13:49:54
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﮼عين :
awak, saya pun somewhat in the same shoes. working in a healthcare line is my dreams, but i was forced to be an accountant or a teacher. dulu saya menurut je nak jadi accountant, now saya sedar, in the future kalau ada apa ii, saya yang kena hadap trying to survive in a career yang saya taknak pun. saya decide just to langgar semua and chase my dreams. please chase your dreams. bcs at the end, no one will help us if we’re struggling with a path yang kita tak ingin pun. kita yang kena hadap semua. kalau bidang tu susah pun, atleast awak tau awak ada minat. minat la yang buat kita berusaha to achieve something. I wish you the best💕
2026-04-28 09:04:29
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نانا :
I don't know what to be anymore.
2026-04-28 10:16:55
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𝐙𝐲𝐞𝐢𝐥 :
you're not alone dear, we are in same situation. my mom also forced me to take this path since she thought once we out from ipg, we will instantly have job which is nice but it is frustrating because i want to do something yang i minat tapi tak boleh sebab dia. tahun ni i apply ipg jugak sebab dia asyik bising and i had no choice but to follow. i feel guilty because ik there are a lot of people there want to be in ipg but here i am. had to take it because i got forced by my mom. being a teacher isn't my dream career at all. i don't even have a passion for it :( now waiting for e-ukcg result. it sucks because i cannot argue with her anymore
2026-04-28 09:01:44
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abby :
as an ipg student here… x pernah ada dlm list utk jdi teacher… but ikut ckp parent ikut ckp cg cg pergi ipg cuz skrg persaingan kerja and so on.. u know what i duduk ipg i xde kawan… jauh dri family pasal lect? biar i je la yg tau.. i lowkey menyesal…. patut i pergi masscomm dulu bukan duduk dkt sini… cita cita i nak jdi wartawann not a teacher …. but nak patah balik? mana nak cekau 70k… maksudnya i kene bertahan dalam environment toxic ni selama 5 yrs… sebenarnya xde hati da nak duduk sini but apakan daya right?
2026-05-13 23:09:52
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