@thepottymouthguru: If you’re neurodivergent and conflict feels like it goes sideways fast… this might be why. A lot of ND brains go to accuracy, intent, or explanation first when something emotional comes up. It’s not because you don’t care. It’s because your system is trying to make sense of what just happened… and get out of that uncomfortable feeling. Meanwhile, the other person is looking for one thing first: 👉 to feel understood And when that part gets skipped, it lands as defensiveness… even when that’s not what’s happening internally. So the shift isn’t becoming a different person. It’s changing the order: acknowledge how it landed → then explain what you meant That’s what keeps both people in the conversation. And just to be clear, ND is not one thing. This won’t apply to every brain, every relationship, or every dynamic. But if this is your pattern, it’s something you can actually work with. If this hit, DM me IMPACT 💬 ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #unfuckyourself #thepottymouthguru #neurodivergent #adhd #rsd

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thepottymouthguru
The Pottymouth Guru :
Be honest… has explaining ever made it worse even when you were trying to help? ❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-04-27 12:59:54
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christinedyer1998
ChristineDyer1998 :
thank you for posting. I am undiagnosed neurospicy and I am trying to learn how to do/see things differently. You have helped me so much with your Chanel. Thank you! 💜
2026-06-25 20:24:35
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chachski90
Chachski :
do you have a video for the neuro-vanilla side of this situation? I feel like I have done my absolute best at trying to help the loved ones in my life understand how to help me help myself in these convos. its like no matter what I do, I'm just trying to get out of being the "mature one" in the conversation? maybe they'll listen to you.
2026-06-12 16:49:22
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arielhxsk41
arielhxsk41 :
This is actually perfectly timed. I’ve been trying to work through a situation where this happened. I’d like to get your thoughts. I knew I hurt someone, and I was originally fine owning impact and wanted to repair. But then the person started rejecting my attempts to repair, which I figured meant he needed more time. But then a few days into this repair thing, he said he felt like I was gaslighting him. This became a tug of war inside of me because I feel an internal boundary around other people defining my intent just because they’re impacted. I hate it. I don’t really have a direction to go with this, but was hoping to get your thoughts if you see this
2026-05-02 14:22:07
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adhdromance
ADHDROMANCE :
Wow - this post makes me feel sooo uncomfortable……that means it resonates with me so deeply — thank you 🙏
2026-07-22 13:11:24
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trevtron5000
trevtron5000 :
I really appreciate you and these videos. they are very much directly responsible to me being better able to handle frictions between my partner and I. I'm AuDHD and she's ADD. thank you so much
2026-05-25 23:14:41
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twow330
TWow 🇳🇿 :
Far out, no wonder my husband and my arguments have often been so circular and messy. We are both in our 50’s recently revealed we are both neurodivergent. Every single one of these patterns has played out regularly 🫣 so glad I found your page
2026-05-13 19:34:06
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rabbitbuckley
Alex Buckley :
holy crap this is accurate, shines a light on where I go wrong too.... but I still get it wrong a lot and I get told that a lot too
2026-06-07 10:41:30
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andiisdandy
andiisdandy :
I'm so glad my algorithm found you. My husband and I are late diagnosed neuro-spicy. Thank you for being you! From Winnipeg Canada 💚
2026-04-30 15:10:20
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alexmck310
Alex McKenna :
I have this but I also have bpd so I lose my sh*t and then simultaneously try to over explain myself, shame myself, feel like I'm the worst person in the world
2026-06-14 22:36:48
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rebsjackson
rebsjackson :
Super helpful!
2026-05-29 04:45:55
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ellayyayy
LA A :
Thank you for these videos, hugely helpful
2026-05-01 21:21:07
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leslie.core
Leslie Core 🌈 🇨🇦 :
I would love to hear more of this. I am neurodivergent and things went sideways with another neurodivergent friend. I am afraid things are too far gone now, but would like to be better for the next person.
2026-05-06 14:40:41
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endlessfunarts
SM33CHIE🇨🇦 :
Yup took a u turn super fast
2026-05-28 06:37:55
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naughtyypenguin
NaughtyPenguin :
well fucken put... thank you. 🥰
2026-06-21 15:08:33
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yeiiena
🦋🌼 :
I'm neurodivergent and I'm typically on the side talking about hurt and being dragged into discussing his intent, being labeled “too emotional/OCD/Anxious/etc” 🫥
2026-06-02 08:29:20
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nailzsama
ɳყҳʄҽɽα 🦇🌙 :
what if I have heard the other person's concerns and recognised and shown accountability and apologised for what happened, calmly. I showed that I understood their side. and they reply with "disabilities suck in general, but I still need you to see my side"?
2026-06-02 17:33:59
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listwithluke
Luke Elson :
Am I neurodivergent 🤔
2026-05-27 12:32:09
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catherinemacpher9
KitchenCat :
😁😁😁
2026-04-27 17:12:46
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kerrydewitz
Kerry D 🇨🇦 :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-03 13:54:57
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