@melhamlett: I dunno. Im proud of my 1st 42 years of life. A ring doesn’t negate all those lessons of centering myself . For decentering men while married content look to people with decades of experience. @Laura Danger @abbyeckel @Paige @J Fisher @heyjaimefish #dating #decentermen #latebloomer #singlelife #marriage @Melanie Hamlett

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blackgirlcantcook
Blackgirlcantcook :
Mel!!!! I truly love your candidness and openness!!
2026-04-27 16:00:30
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amy_unapologetically
✭ AMESTER MONSTER ✭ :
I am 31, I called off my wedding and broke up with him a year ago. It was one of the most rewarding choices of my life!! Weeeee✨✨
2026-04-28 15:08:58
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j1bbles
Jibbles :
Please keep sharing, Mel. I’ve learnt more from you and some of your mutuals than from anyone else on this app! Your willingness to make yourself vulnerable by sharing so openly is what makes your content so wise, relatable, and helpful. Being married takes nothing away from that, and helps show that we can keep doing the work to decentre men, whiteness, all of it, even when married to a man. Thank you for all you put into this, and I’m so sorry it’s been such a rough time lately!
2026-04-28 11:51:24
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jmel4222
Thepeoplesprincess :
You were ahead of the times, it’s rare to see someone who prioritized their own life.
2026-04-27 16:14:00
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twirlingtex
Brenda :
I’ve been thinking about the discourse around this all weekend 🙏
2026-04-27 22:33:49
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krystleroseking
Krys 😎 :
Thanks for sharing, I didn’t start dating until 29 but never had a long term relationship. I used to feel so foolish about how interacted with men. But it was knowledge I never had, yes, I didn’t know how to date as well.
2026-04-27 20:32:51
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audreymolia
Audrey moli :
I love the costume idea xD
2026-04-28 08:04:28
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usercxrjjseuww
amanda🇨🇦 :
that costume is amazing 😂😂
2026-04-28 00:22:55
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thevenomoussiren
Venomous Siren :
"I'm Married!!" 🤣🤣🤣 I love how much you have shared with us and your openness has truly inspired us. Thank You! 💙
2026-04-30 12:16:50
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jjoycew69
jjoycew69 :
Excellent costume! 💙
2026-05-05 16:02:21
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flakestake
flakestake :
Tha realest!!!
2026-04-29 04:20:28
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barewithmeli
Meli🐻⭐️🍋 :
Omg how was L.A Mel ?😍
2026-04-28 21:09:11
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heyjaimefish
heyjaimefish :
This is an epic first date outfit combo
2026-04-28 01:05:41
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kirsicz
Kirsi :
You’re an icon for living for yourself! 🫶
2026-04-27 18:37:09
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ceibaconsulting
Ceiba tree consulting :
I love my children. They’re my favorite humans ever. But the road to and after their existence? Full of lies, emotional coercion, emotional abuse, and financial abuse. 0/10 would recommend
2026-05-03 12:14:48
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anastasia.beaverh53
Anastasia Beaverhousen :
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
2026-04-27 17:34:27
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cowboilikeme69
Wear you like a necklace :
I kinda hoped you were a lesbian but that’s extremely parasocial and you being married does not at all invalidate the 42 years of experience you have living life before then. This app is so wonderful but also so annoying sometimes.
2026-04-27 22:10:02
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