@melhamlett: I dunno. Im proud of my 1st 42 years of life. A ring doesn’t negate all those lessons of centering myself . For decentering men while married content look to people with decades of experience. @Laura Danger @abbyeckel @Paige @J Fisher @heyjaimefish #dating #decentermen #latebloomer #singlelife #marriage @Melanie Hamlett
Mel!!!! I truly love your candidness and openness!!
2026-04-27 16:00:30
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✭ AMESTER MONSTER ✭ :
I am 31, I called off my wedding and broke up with him a year ago. It was one of the most rewarding choices of my life!! Weeeee✨✨
2026-04-28 15:08:58
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Jibbles :
Please keep sharing, Mel. I’ve learnt more from you and some of your mutuals than from anyone else on this app! Your willingness to make yourself vulnerable by sharing so openly is what makes your content so wise, relatable, and helpful. Being married takes nothing away from that, and helps show that we can keep doing the work to decentre men, whiteness, all of it, even when married to a man. Thank you for all you put into this, and I’m so sorry it’s been such a rough time lately!
2026-04-28 11:51:24
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Thepeoplesprincess :
You were ahead of the times, it’s rare to see someone who prioritized their own life.
2026-04-27 16:14:00
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Brenda :
I’ve been thinking about the discourse around this all weekend 🙏
2026-04-27 22:33:49
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Krys 😎 :
Thanks for sharing, I didn’t start dating until 29 but never had a long term relationship. I used to feel so foolish about how interacted with men. But it was knowledge I never had, yes, I didn’t know how to date as well.
2026-04-27 20:32:51
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Audrey moli :
I love the costume idea xD
2026-04-28 08:04:28
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amanda🇨🇦 :
that costume is amazing 😂😂
2026-04-28 00:22:55
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Venomous Siren :
"I'm Married!!" 🤣🤣🤣 I love how much you have shared with us and your openness has truly inspired us. Thank You! 💙
2026-04-30 12:16:50
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jjoycew69 :
Excellent costume! 💙
2026-05-05 16:02:21
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flakestake :
Tha realest!!!
2026-04-29 04:20:28
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Meli🐻⭐️🍋 :
Omg how was L.A Mel ?😍
2026-04-28 21:09:11
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heyjaimefish :
This is an epic first date outfit combo
2026-04-28 01:05:41
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Kirsi :
You’re an icon for living for yourself! 🫶
2026-04-27 18:37:09
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Ceiba tree consulting :
I love my children. They’re my favorite humans ever. But the road to and after their existence? Full of lies, emotional coercion, emotional abuse, and financial abuse. 0/10 would recommend
2026-05-03 12:14:48
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Anastasia Beaverhousen :
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
2026-04-27 17:34:27
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Wear you like a necklace :
I kinda hoped you were a lesbian but that’s extremely parasocial and you being married does not at all invalidate the 42 years of experience you have living life before then. This app is so wonderful but also so annoying sometimes.
2026-04-27 22:10:02
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