@professor.steph: Why do I keep attracting the “wrong” people? Great question! Trying to mess around with this can feel like a very helpless, very powerless position. Because you can’t control who approaches you, right? So in this place where you don’t want: - flaky friends - low effort partners - emotionally dry conversations How do you still find yourself surrounded by people like this if you wouldn’t actively choose them in a line up? The key here comes in figuring out you’re relationship to the version of yourself that they bring out. What responsibility, duty, pressure, or expectation would you need to let go of within yourself in order to no longer embody that version of yourself that exists with them? Can you let the chips fall where they may in that connection when you shed this version of yourself? And what kind of life does this bring you closer to? #selfgrowth #selfreflection #datingadvice #datingtips #HealingJourney

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