the number of times I 120% believed I was engaged with a fun and friendly debate with someone, as a positive, relationship building experience, only to find out they believed it was a catastrophic argument.
2026-05-04 02:54:24
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Kelli Ann :
As an AuDHD woman, I got told I was argumentative but I do not care about being right. I CARE IF THE INFORMATION IS RIGHT.
2026-05-05 13:43:01
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Kayla B :
I literally enjoy arguing 😅
2026-06-05 05:45:36
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Fliibertyjibbet13 :
I ALWAYS argued as a child- parents: you should be a lawyer.
2026-05-03 20:39:16
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jenbugblue662 :
here is the thing, I will 100% admit when I’m wrong, but I’m correct a lot. 💁🏼♀️
2026-05-04 01:38:06
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roi_rick6 :
Coercive cycle of interaction
2026-05-04 12:10:48
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🔔Chell Bell🔔 :
For me personally, it’s not that it’s fun. It’s that I don’t really understand what they don’t get about my side of the argument because I feel like I’m making total logical sense and they aren’t. And I’ll admit when I’m wrong but usually I’m right him then the other person wants to dip out of the argument.
2026-05-03 22:59:41
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SeunOnPen :
I don’t love to argue. I love the cognitive sparring that leads to mutual understanding even if we disagree. Arguing with people who think I’m fighting them is draining af. I want clarity and understanding, not to win nor to be right.
2026-05-04 13:01:17
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Jas :
“But why?” “Why not?” “Make it make sense.” “Where’s your evidence?” “Give me an example.”
2026-05-03 22:37:08
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Larry :
Argue? No. Debate? Yes
2026-05-04 19:41:39
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nurdgurl2000 :
I thought arguing was fun because I’m a jerk? LOL
2026-05-03 17:56:19
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Caleb Quintana :
It’s not that I wanna argue. It’s that I want to push for logical reasoning until it makes sense to me. If it doesn’t make sense, then it’s really hard for me to let it go.
2026-05-12 23:33:40
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@ChattiNatti1 :
I HATE being misunderstood. Sometimes, I'm not even arguing, I'm trying to make sure what you're receiving, is what I'm trying to communicate.
2026-05-12 15:03:22
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Nicole | Business Therapist :
Dr. Kristin Carothers
2026-05-04 00:41:41
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Jiza🇨🇩 :
Oh lord …
2026-06-05 05:14:24
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pudding.and.pie. :
It’s a discussion, not an argument.
2026-05-09 11:11:23
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IM_ON_LUNCH :
I love arguing and I have a job that reinforces my behavior.
2026-06-05 04:06:58
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Stgo Keila :
Try that soft parenting bs with my 18yr old son you’ll see that when you ask for quiet time he will keep going because he needs you to verbalize that he’s right or give in to what he’s telling you.
2026-06-05 05:36:29
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Johnny Norway :
I don't need to be right. I need to be understood. As long as they demonstrate they grasp what I'm trying to say then we can end the conversation there. Even if they vehemently disagree with me.
2026-05-04 01:06:37
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Cyn Moon :
My entire life “You just love to argue 🙄” like dang I didn’t even think I was arguing, I thought we were having a fun conversation 🥺
2026-05-04 03:45:12
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envy :
I don’t wanna be right, I want to understand why you don’t understand my point and also try to understand your part and if I don’t get my understanding, i can’t rest.
2026-05-13 08:28:57
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Bri Bri :
As an ADHD person, it’s not fun to argue. It’s extremely exhausting to not be understood and people think you’re arguing when you’re not!
2026-05-05 20:14:46
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J 🚩 :
It’s not that it’s fun, it’s that I’m good at it
2026-05-10 04:47:16
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