@trevornoah: Why ADHD Brains Actually Love to Argue

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adequatelyvaguename
noface :
the number of times I 120% believed I was engaged with a fun and friendly debate with someone, as a positive, relationship building experience, only to find out they believed it was a catastrophic argument.
2026-05-04 02:54:24
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kelliannlove
Kelli Ann :
As an AuDHD woman, I got told I was argumentative but I do not care about being right. I CARE IF THE INFORMATION IS RIGHT.
2026-05-05 13:43:01
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kboyce614
Kayla B :
I literally enjoy arguing 😅
2026-06-05 05:45:36
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hmorrill13
Fliibertyjibbet13 :
I ALWAYS argued as a child- parents: you should be a lawyer.
2026-05-03 20:39:16
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jenbugblue662
jenbugblue662 :
here is the thing, I will 100% admit when I’m wrong, but I’m correct a lot. 💁🏼‍♀️
2026-05-04 01:38:06
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roi_rick6
roi_rick6 :
Coercive cycle of interaction
2026-05-04 12:10:48
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chellybelly3155
🔔Chell Bell🔔 :
For me personally, it’s not that it’s fun. It’s that I don’t really understand what they don’t get about my side of the argument because I feel like I’m making total logical sense and they aren’t. And I’ll admit when I’m wrong but usually I’m right him then the other person wants to dip out of the argument.
2026-05-03 22:59:41
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seunonset
SeunOnPen :
I don’t love to argue. I love the cognitive sparring that leads to mutual understanding even if we disagree. Arguing with people who think I’m fighting them is draining af. I want clarity and understanding, not to win nor to be right.
2026-05-04 13:01:17
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pjazz33
Jas :
“But why?” “Why not?” “Make it make sense.” “Where’s your evidence?” “Give me an example.”
2026-05-03 22:37:08
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lawrencesarafian
Larry :
Argue? No. Debate? Yes
2026-05-04 19:41:39
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nurdgurl2000
nurdgurl2000 :
I thought arguing was fun because I’m a jerk? LOL
2026-05-03 17:56:19
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cubanwoodpusher
Caleb Quintana :
It’s not that I wanna argue. It’s that I want to push for logical reasoning until it makes sense to me. If it doesn’t make sense, then it’s really hard for me to let it go.
2026-05-12 23:33:40
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chattinatti1
@ChattiNatti1 :
I HATE being misunderstood. Sometimes, I'm not even arguing, I'm trying to make sure what you're receiving, is what I'm trying to communicate.
2026-05-12 15:03:22
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thebusinesstherapist
Nicole | Business Therapist :
Dr. Kristin Carothers
2026-05-04 00:41:41
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jizaaa470
Jiza🇨🇩 :
Oh lord …
2026-06-05 05:14:24
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puddingandpieaus
pudding.and.pie. :
It’s a discussion, not an argument.
2026-05-09 11:11:23
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im_on_lunch
IM_ON_LUNCH :
I love arguing and I have a job that reinforces my behavior.
2026-06-05 04:06:58
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stgokeila
Stgo Keila :
Try that soft parenting bs with my 18yr old son you’ll see that when you ask for quiet time he will keep going because he needs you to verbalize that he’s right or give in to what he’s telling you.
2026-06-05 05:36:29
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johnnynorway
Johnny Norway :
I don't need to be right. I need to be understood. As long as they demonstrate they grasp what I'm trying to say then we can end the conversation there. Even if they vehemently disagree with me.
2026-05-04 01:06:37
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cynthiaevemoon
Cyn Moon :
My entire life “You just love to argue 🙄” like dang I didn’t even think I was arguing, I thought we were having a fun conversation 🥺
2026-05-04 03:45:12
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dolledxtra_
envy :
I don’t wanna be right, I want to understand why you don’t understand my point and also try to understand your part and if I don’t get my understanding, i can’t rest.
2026-05-13 08:28:57
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bthebest13
Bri Bri :
As an ADHD person, it’s not fun to argue. It’s extremely exhausting to not be understood and people think you’re arguing when you’re not!
2026-05-05 20:14:46
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jcwatching
J 🚩 :
It’s not that it’s fun, it’s that I’m good at it
2026-05-10 04:47:16
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