@justaskjefferson: This is why complaining is so toxic.

Dr. Anabel Ternès von Hattburg :

Complaining can feel harmless, but it often keeps people stuck in the same mindset. At some point, the more useful question is not “why is this happening?” but “what can I actually do next?”

zod :

how to distinguish complaining and expressing?

The Substance of Us :

It's easy to get stuck there and difficult to "unstick". 💖

MindsetCoach :

Sooo true🌸🌸

Keith J St. Louis :

I have to use it as a release and if you dont complain and hold it in leads to more negativity

Wolfgang Tay | Negotiations 📈 :

couldn’t agree with this more think about the way you feel time you or someone else complaining. It sucks the air and enjoyment right on the room

IYOGABODY :

And this is why talking therapy ( Freud way) never heal people

Morné-TheLegalEagle👨🏼‍⚖️ :

The other argument would be that the complaining itself serves an outlet for those underlining issues, instead of having it brew and boil, to actually attract the negativity. So, complaining is not definitely a magnet for negativity but can function as release. 😁😁

Queen :

Complete

smc :

Beautifully said!

DesertFlower :

In my personal experience, I have processed through many uncomfortable relationships, experiences, and situations by speaking them out loud. It's a necessary process to heal yourself.

Belle :

Venting vs constantly complaining. Love it!

Vince Walcott :

👏 great share very well said thank you for sharing this perspective with us

sandyspears :

this is Soooo true, 😳

Joy Nicholson ~ AI Educator :

Love you two together on a podcast. Looking forward to watching the entire episode

Life_Is_Good :

Mara Lingat :

true,

RiaKings :

ahhh

7758358 :

My question is always “cool, what are you going to do about this next”? Or are you just talking for the sake of talking

whiteravenholistic :

So true!

MUYIGA REAGAN :

oooooooh ooooh this is deep 😏

MaceChindu :

Thanks for that.

jamesdg :

Inner voice

ame :

I called it the chicken little in my past relationship. everything was horrible, broke, junk, dumb...

jade black :

its very exhausting beign around people who makes you complain. ..its lots of oressure holding yourself not to complain.