I honestly think monogamy itself is as old as humanity. I think the same about nonmonogamy
2026-04-29 13:39:22
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Greychan :
I FUCKING KNEW IT
2026-04-28 20:02:40
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Kayla Kitsune :
I'm a monogamous demisexual. My brain doesn't want anyone else...
2026-05-12 04:32:27
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NatsukiSings :
I've been in monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Now I'm in a relationship with one person and we're both happy but we both agreed that if one of us falls for someone else, we'll talk about it. We're not actively looking for someone else, but not closed to the idea either. That's a sweet spot I feel fits us very well.
2026-04-30 14:04:10
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Lightning Chaser :
I got so tired of being miserable and cheated on in monogamy I took the factor out of the equation and now I'm poly and I love it cuz I have freedom now. and I love my partner.
2026-05-14 11:00:13
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Witch2015 🆘️🇺🇸 :
I didn't realize that's why it was created. That being said, I THINK even if I were not taught it is a Nobel thing, I would only want to be monogamous.
2026-05-14 21:28:50
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goolock_supremacy :
recommended reading for others interested in this would be The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State by Engels.
2026-04-28 22:05:19
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ScrodingersTimelord :
I don't have a problem with polyamory. I have a problem with predatory/abusive men using polyamory as a disguise for cheating. I probably couldn't be in a polyamorous relationship even if I wanted to.
2026-05-09 22:36:45
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Jimi 🏳️🌈💖🤍💙 :
so many people have to qualify that they practice ethical polyamoury, and I love that you mentioned ethical monogamy, because I don't think I have ever heard anyone specify that. It is great to even the field and make each option as legitimate as the other based on preference and needs, rather than assuming monogamy is always ethical and polyamoury needs the specification.
2026-04-29 17:16:19
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jessiefisch68🏳️🌈 :
I am polyamorous as well as butch lesbian. I like having two female spouses in my life. All three of us are equals lots of communication honesty straightforwardness that is a lifestyle. I like that is the lifestyle I appreciate because I can love more than one person.
2026-05-05 16:41:52
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Breanna :
“Do you want to?” Exactly! I’ve tried to explain this to people on both sides of the aisle. It’s okay, either way. But only if everyone is happy with it.
2026-05-27 21:33:49
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Kiba Kitsune :
... today I learned...
I keep learning new things EVERY time you show up on my FYP actually!
2026-05-13 16:22:59
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KaiLuc13 :
Thank you for the nuanced view! There are often such polarising views from both sides. I had this discussion with my bf when we started dating and we decided that monogamy works better for us, at least for now, and that we would revisit this if either of us needs to.
2026-04-29 09:48:37
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ThornyKitty :
when my youngest was born, my partner and I actually agreed to be monogamous until she was more independent. we barely had enough left over for eachother on top of taking care of the baby. that conversation really changed how we approach our capacity and our partners.
2026-05-04 17:17:07
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Rach :
How do you determine what common knowledge is? I’ve never understood that term because people don’t know things until they’re taught them. Nothing is inherently just known.
2026-05-12 11:10:04
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dysphoriamemoria :
I'm 40 and still haven't figured out what I want...at this point, I probably never will either
2026-05-12 16:59:48
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PrincessBxy :
oh my goodness, this is amazing!- do you have a business email or something? As a fellow queer, poly therapist, I'd LOVE to collaborate on creating research/literature/resources!!
2026-04-28 17:44:47
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Aevelyn :
Love all of your videos!
2026-04-28 16:35:40
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EC :
I think that maybe monogamy needs to be parsed out from marriage in this case, since monogamy is a legitimate way to love like any other but marriage and ownership are control based
2026-05-11 02:42:36
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Teresa :
I love your channel! “Do you want to?”
2026-05-20 03:17:12
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Fluffy :
I’m monogamist but my partner is polyamorous, and I get to hear how cute his other partners are and help when things get rough, he’s adorable and so sweet ❤️
2026-06-09 05:20:16
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InnThrall- PA's #1 spicy B&B :
I can absolutely see this !!!
2026-06-15 22:01:20
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Yuri Huffles :
Just met you on this post on my FYP. And love this. I would love to have a partner that I allow to have poly relationship. However I know I sadly would get too jealous- and that’s a flaw on my part. So I seek partners who will accept me with that flaw and will practice monogamy while we’re together.
2026-06-16 00:06:33
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Rogelio Delgado :
Commenting to stay on polytok 🫡
2026-05-20 06:02:05
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RUNEWORKER :
I did know. many years ago
2026-04-29 02:51:56
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