@soheefit: You’re going to have moments when you don’t feel great about your body. But don’t let yourself get pulled into unhealthy behaviors. The goal is not to never have these kinds of unpleasant experiences ever again, but rather to accept that they will come and go, practice self-kindness without judgment, and continue living your life in a way that aligns with your values. This is body image flexibility. A meta-analysis found that body image flexibility was negatively correlated with eating and body image disturbances and positively correlated with intuitive eating, well-being, and self-compassion. If you feel like you’re not great at this just yet, it’s okay. This is something that can improve with practice. Create space between the negative thought/feeling and your response. Be kind to yourself today. ❤️ #BodyImage #BodyImageFlexibility #SelfCompassion #IntuitiveEating

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itss_valee :
Read Clear the Noise by Leona Vale if you're struggling with anxiety/racing thoughts. literally changed my life.
2026-05-12 15:49:08
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justanotherrandomhuman
Random Human :
Why is taking a walk answer of 50% of my problems? Rude 😑
2026-04-28 18:09:51
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barelycompetent
Toast :
I've started saying hello (usually in a silly voice) to the parts of my body I don't always like and it's really made me feel different about them. when I look in the mirror and don't like how my belly looks I say, "hello belly" and hold or touch it. now my immediate thought is usually "hello belly" instead of dislike or discomfort
2026-04-29 00:12:27
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𐙚AYME :
if you've got a racing mind or anxiety or adhd and feel stuck, please read Clear The Noise by Leona Vale. it did more for me than months of trying everything else ❤️
2026-05-12 15:46:45
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jlowe882
jlowe882 :
Best advice ever. Thank you.
2026-05-16 05:59:47
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JanetB🇨🇦😶‍🌫️💜 :
I think this is a much better approach than only body positivity. im from the era where we went from saying negative things to only being allowed to say positive things so our kids didn't get the negative ideas but this makes much more sense to me. this way they learn that both thoughts are ok.
2026-05-02 17:15:01
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taikamorri
Taika 🇫🇮 :
If my intrusive thoughts try to take over, I stop it by asking myself "what would Steve Irwin say?". His level of kindness and respect for every living creature includes even me 🥰
2026-05-03 19:49:30
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justemjoy
justemjoy :
Thank you so much 🧡
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sasha_with_all_that_hair
sasha_with_all_that_hair :
LOVE THIS WOMAN
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The Rocky Road Girl :
🔥🔥🔥
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Kylie M. :
👏👏👏
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cazmaguire
✨✨Caz Maguire✨✨ :
I need to hear this today thank you Sohee 🥺🥺🥺
2026-04-28 16:56:01
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Little Sausage :
Love this. Well explained and with clear language
2026-04-29 16:20:16
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