@burned_notbroken: they don’t need you to manage theirs, so they don’t want to have to manage yours. that management is what led to burnout in the first place. #burnedoutpursuer #relationshipburnout #breakuptok #almostdivorced #relationshiprepair
I changed thinking they were gone for good. it's been 3 months. They are back in my life and I have reverted back to some bad habits.
2026-04-28 19:23:02
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Jomama :
Yes! I’m not doing this to save my failing relationship. I’m doing this to become someone I’m proud of.
2026-05-19 14:46:35
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GBDH :
Me 3/4 months ago? Absolutely not. Me now? I know it’s necessary for me
2026-05-06 21:49:37
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G :
You’ll never know for certain. Real change is consistency over years. Not months.
2026-04-29 17:21:59
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Darkreviver0_NZ :
It was too late for the relationship, but in the days before it all turned upside down and we argued and went on a break before she broke things up a week later, I had a mindset shift and realised I needed to show up for myself. That growth has continued over the past 3 months now and I am in a much better space, and its continuing. My future depends on it whether shes in it or not. Its been a journey, and I know I still have a way to go, but im getting there.
I hope one day she sees that, but if not, thats ok. As much as its hard to admit that
2026-04-28 19:29:08
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Merlyn Q :
No I want to be better for my son and myself.
2026-04-28 17:53:46
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stu_bedasso :
yes,
2026-05-02 23:26:59
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truerobertson79 :
no im doing it for me and my kids and to be a better dad and person
2026-05-09 02:03:20
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nik ♱ :
I sent a dm can you respond please!
2026-04-28 19:10:55
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wandering.cowgirl34 :
yes, im walking thru this growth journey. it was something that needed to happen. and even if he was still here id still be going thru it and I was when he was here he just couldnt stand the heat that came with my growth journey.
2026-05-03 14:57:57
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Emily B :
Yes!! ❤️
2026-05-03 20:25:32
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trevor :
yes because I wouldn't want to carry this foward if I were to get in another doubt I will
2026-05-24 19:55:50
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Ray Logan :
I ruined things a month ago. she's still very much in contact. says she loves me. misses me. but says doesn't know if she can try again right now. I want it badly, and I'm hanging on to the "right now" part. am i being a fool?
2026-04-28 19:39:03
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☆Misty Lee☆ :
yes, because for the first time I had someone help show me what was happening and nobody else ever did. I just wish he would have communicated the way he did at the end setting boundaries before it was too late. I'm changing to have a successful relationship. They have all failed.
2026-05-12 23:59:14
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surferbeerdrinker :
I have no choice but to do the work, whether they are with me side by side or gone.
2026-06-26 04:39:33
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-28 18:22:11
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