@antdsply: If you’re stuck comparing yourself to the affair partner… constantly checking, wondering, questioning your worth…I’ve been there. What helped me wasn’t more control… it was surrender. I started praying for God to take those obsessive thoughts away…the need to check her social media, the lies that I wasn’t enough, the constant mental spiral. And something shifted. God didn’t just remove the obsession…He gave me clarity. I began to see her differently… not as someone “better,” but as someone broken too. And that changed everything. It gave me compassion instead of comparison. More importantly, it brought me back to who I am in Christ. My worth was never up for debate. And neither is yours. This was never about you not being enough. Broken people make broken choices. And let me just say this… the moment you stop measuring yourself against her is the moment you start reclaiming your peace. 🫶🏻❤️‍🩹 #sidechick #affairrecovery #cheater #cheating #betrayaltrauma

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rochelleorens
rochelleorens :
Remind myself that a frozen burrito doesn’t compare to a fancy steakhouse dinner… it’s just easier 🤔
2026-04-29 20:14:42
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whitesilencetg
NovemberLove :
100% AGREE! 🔥
2026-04-28 23:28:34
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d.widders
D. Widders :
Not the microderm as your mic 😂😂😂
2026-04-28 23:23:03
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ruks7862
Keya 🥰 :
Thank you for this but I'm struggling
2026-04-28 22:55:40
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bambiii_808
MommyBri :
SHE KNEW ✨
2026-05-23 01:15:14
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amytruthtaylor
AmyTaylor :
Im so tired of thinking of her
2026-05-13 15:20:15
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naturalbeauty3215
❤️HANNAH ❤️ :
I’m struggling with this I just want to be the only one ! 🙏❤️🙏
2026-04-29 23:03:37
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rettahoward625
Retta Hughes Howard :
This has been the biggest struggle.
2026-05-06 01:38:21
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sheri_from_oregon
Sheri Chitwood :
what about someone who starts seeing your spouse during a separation?
2026-04-29 01:31:26
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shaebennett0528
Mishaela💗 :
Thank you for this 💗💗💗
2026-04-28 20:41:21
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donnascagliarini
Kim🩵🍭 :
Yes, it’s very hard not to compare, especially after years of betrayal 💔
2026-04-29 20:05:31
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taraschreckengost
Tara Schreckengost :
This is the stage I’m in right now.
2026-04-29 17:31:28
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lizellesmith41
lizelle Smith-Zeelie :
I'm struggling it's very bad 24/7 and the nightmares 😢
2026-04-29 14:37:19
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anadarkoworered
Anadarko 💕💔🖤 :
same! she was a triathlete 8 years younger ... that's broken.. and even more broken now after what they did and her learning he lied about himself & our relationship. so now im working on how to heal myself and doing so much better (and do is he) no more comparisons & I feel compassion more than just disgust and pain now 💕
2026-04-29 00:46:36
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briamelse
✨Briiii✨ :
I really needed this today. I’ve been giving myself anxiety attacks overthinking it on my way home from work, mainly picturing confronting her since she (was) my friend. It’s been 3 months so far & things have gotten kind of easier where as some have become more consistent. Thank you for this!!! God sends people in ways you didn’t know you needed at the right times. 🤍
2026-04-29 20:17:30
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diedrakennedy
Diedra Kennedy :
I did the very same thing!!! It helped so much! Bless those who curse me who say all manner of evil things against me!! I prayed for her as well!
2026-04-29 02:07:23
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genoveva7913
𝓖𝓮𝓷𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓿𝓪 🌻 :
I needed to see this today. 🙏 ty
2026-04-29 01:51:58
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pixieminer
Ginger mom :
Praying helps.
2026-05-16 21:34:26
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lindy19622
Lindy :
this! thank u
2026-04-29 06:56:10
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ultimatenic43
UltimateNic43 :
So how did you react when he paid you a compliment? Did you feel he meant it? I'm struggling with this. I don't believe him at all.if he says I'm looking good today, I roll eyes or say yeah right
2026-04-29 17:32:01
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proper1323
Proper1323 :
I'm glad you were able to overcome these thoughts. I am thankful I never compared myself to the person. I was postpartum, but I always reminded myself that I am the b**ch lol.
2026-04-29 19:14:17
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emilybilbrey
emilybilbrey :
thank you! I needed to see this. my hubby has cheated 3 times physically and 1 time emotionally on me. the emotional cheating was with my best friend of 28 years. a little over 2 years ago now. but she was a bigger women. so was one of the other women he cheated on me with. he likes bigger women. he even asked me after I had our son if I could try and gain some weight. it was 18 years ago but I cant stop thinking about that. and I have been on a weight gain journey since I found out about him and my ex bff. I am still hyper focused on my weight and my looks. we have been married 16 years, and together 21 total. im exhausted. my nervous system is exhausted. my soul is tired. and I just need to stop and remember who I am in Christ. and keep leaving him at the alter everyday. as far as the ex bff goes, I have already forgiven her. I understand why and how it even got to where it did. and I understand my part in all of it too. but i want nothing to do with her. ever! I pray for her all the time though. there is no love lost. we were friends since we were 11 yrs old. but there's zero chance of reconciliation.
2026-05-22 10:03:54
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theferrellcrew
✨️ Melissa ✨️ :
how do we do this when standing for our marriage while our spouse is still actively cheating with the other woman? 😞
2026-04-30 10:18:11
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kthamby70
KristaH70 ❌ :
I knew her. She was older, skinnier, and most likely prettier. But I didn’t care one bit. What my loop was “He wanted a relationship with another woman!” Now that one, that one gripped me and twisted me in ways I didn’t know I could bend. Finding my Savior has helped, but I do have days that are hard. But I’m only 9 months in.
2026-05-27 21:21:21
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