@keshaspeaks: A lot of people asked, “So how do we fix this?” after I talked about losing the desire to initiate sex in my marriage. But I think we have to slow that question down. Because if the dynamic that killed the intimacy is still intact… are we talking about repair, or are we just trying to get the benefits back? That’s a very different conversation. #MarriageTok #RelationshipTalk #MentalLoad #EmotionalIntimacy #WomenAreTired

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books_and_barks83
Ash🐦‍⬛🌧♟️☀️👑📚 :
i love my husband to death, he is my best friend and life partner, but I would be content if we never had sex again, like ever. And THAT is ruining our relationship
2026-04-29 14:17:30
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Lin Beifong 🪨 :
Marriage just does not seem like an enjoyable experience
2026-04-29 13:50:36
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nikkimunno
NLM :
U didn’t feel mentally & emotionally safe & appreciated. I get this 100%
2026-04-29 00:09:23
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charlotte_exotic_spotter
charlotte_exotic_spotter :
Husband here. This is so good. I want to repair the intimacy so badly. I truly don’t want to be responsible for draining the life out of my spouse and I want to shift the dynamic quickly as she deserves it.
2026-04-29 10:27:33
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daisy_.rebel
Daisy :
“The invisible details that nobody claps for but everyone feels when they fall apart” 💯
2026-04-29 11:23:08
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vitasharel
vitasharel :
I understood immediately when you said “mothering” I personally can relate. It’s no partnership, I have to somehow help or do every task etc.. it’s draining 🫠🫠
2026-04-29 12:57:35
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king_nenny
Enenu :
intimacy does not equal desires...
2026-04-28 23:20:37
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btwexpressions
BLWalker❌ :
I grew to understand that, by the stories I kept hearing. It is exhausting to be responsible for everyone and also dedicated to her own career feeling alone in her house. I vowed to not to be that guy. Love making starts with showing appreciation and consideration. The body keeps score!! Sex should be desired not required. Intimacy is an all day journey. We are partners in union. How can I help you more!!
2026-04-29 21:33:46
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intokazi_p
MaZuma :
Clocked it. Intimacy is more than just THAT moment. I need to feel secure, soft and relaxed too. Doing all that mental heavy lifting kills the spark no matter how much you love a person.
2026-04-30 02:02:33
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digitalqueenbee
digitalqueenbee :
Once you lose desire for your partner...
2026-04-29 00:27:39
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jaynesummer4
jaynesummer4 :
How did anyone not get this? I understood 100%.
2026-04-29 03:14:53
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shuhidee
🆂🅷🆄🅷🅸 :
Esther Perel is an expert on this subject. Desire. I found her 2 weeks after getting married, when I felt zero attraction for my partner.
2026-04-29 22:52:39
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_intombi_yomzulu
Thabisile :
"Desire doesn't grow well in resentment, in exhaustion..."🙌🏾🤏🏾
2026-04-30 12:57:36
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jojojoyogi
jojojoyogi :
they remember what is important to them ..
2026-04-29 22:25:36
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mejohnson53
Megan Johnson :
I know you’ve heard this across multiple videos, but the way you are able to break things down and put into words what many women are feeling is truly incredible. I wholeheartedly appreciate your insight and am so happy I came across your page! 💕
2026-04-29 00:30:12
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tonyablake4
Tonya Blake :
It becomes another duty, another assignment, something else I had to manage.
2026-04-30 01:15:51
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savy_carson
Savy_Carson :
“Another person whose life I had to help run” 👏👏
2026-04-29 20:54:57
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k.lynnjourneys
K.LYNN'S JOURNEY :
You are reading my life story right and I feel so seen and heard because I was feeling all alone in my thoughts and feelings
2026-04-29 18:05:10
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dgerbera3
dgerbera3 :
For me it has nothing to do with that. I just don’t wanna have sex all the time. Plain and simple. Nothing to do with desire, want or feeling valued.
2026-04-29 12:03:55
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mizzkourtnie
Chocolate Puddin :
I’m only 31 and I just don’t like sex at all anymore… I just want to be alone with my children. Don’t touch meee 😭😭😭
2026-04-29 18:44:57
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jasmineparrilla7
jasmine parrilla :
that's exhausting
2026-04-28 23:23:35
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sophia.andree.kia
Mrs.SophiaKM :
You were exhausted
2026-04-29 01:30:18
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tdm1120
Mindful~Ladybug :
you did an amazing job explaining this!!!
2026-05-01 09:49:39
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luvmisstal
Tally :
It started right after my maternity leave. I take care of everything for our baby with no help unless I ask multiple times.. I thought something was physically wrong with me. Thank you so much for ypur video❤️❤️😘🤍
2026-04-29 04:20:36
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shadowlife24
Shadow :
I feel seen and understood here! Thank you ❤️‍🩹
2026-05-03 20:15:36
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