@tessaviolet: Older people telling me “marriage is hard” be my actual experience of it.

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rachel209617
Rachel209617 :
someone told me at my wedding that we would have to "wake up everyday and fight for our marriage", we get a little irritated with each other in airports but???? what?????
2026-04-29 00:11:19
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hotmessgrace
Grace :
marriage is easy, life is the thing that's hard. if you're married to the right person, they make it easier to get through the hard
2026-04-29 05:35:31
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zelenoye
Марианна Иваненко :
I am sorry sorry to say that because your song is in fact very beautiful and partially true... but. I LOVE my husband, and marriage was easy very easy right up until we became parents. And my husband is an amazing dad. The source of friction for us is simply being tired and fighting who's gonna get a bit more rest next. To get a bit of a hobby in. To go out without a kid. To do chores evenly. And we don't fight often, but there's this tension of never never having enough rest. That is my experience of why marriage is hard😅
2026-04-29 09:23:07
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_rinzzy_
Oliviuhh :
So many people snarkily told us “just give it a few years…” when we got married. It’s been 8 years. We’re still best friends. We belly laugh together every day, we share joy and love and encouragement with each other. Marriage is magical if you choose the right person and I stand by that.
2026-04-30 18:39:12
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kelly_bean42
Kelly :
I fear I need you to drop this song on streaming services as soon as possible pretty please ♥️♥️
2026-04-29 17:00:35
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angela73011
angela7a :
love should be mutually calm and understanding. it should listen with no judgements and fill you with joy even when the world is falling apart. it doesn't have to be perfect, but it has be be a safe haven at the end of the day. that's what loving my husband has taught me 🥰
2026-04-29 00:52:03
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okaylaceyok
LaceyOK :
My first marriage was hard. My second marriage has been one of the greatest joys of my life. We’re going on seven years together. Life is hard. Marriage should make it easier.
2026-04-29 13:38:41
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angelad49
Angela_Plans :
I’ve found marriage is easy, life is hard. But when you love the right person they help you through the hard times not make life more difficult.
2026-04-29 05:34:14
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dragonpixies
dragonpixies 🥄 :
I'm soooooo glad to hear this from you. 7 years ago "crush" inspired me to pursue my current boyfriend, and we feel this way about each other now!! 🫶 💝💖
2026-04-29 03:31:36
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bingauxxx
Bingaux :
I don't care about record companies, big roll outs, or spot lights, I care that every time Tessa releases a song it becomes my new favorite song, I tell everyone this is my favorite artist
2026-04-30 16:59:42
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courageaj
Aj Stewart :
my husband sent me this song today at work today and I honestly started crying. it is so beautiful and so true. 🥰
2026-04-29 22:16:02
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toastradahmus
TOASTradahmus :
Loving her is not only easy, it's one of my absolute favorite things to do!
2026-04-30 09:53:05
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kthulhu42
Kat :
sometimes it's hard when you have a new baby and you're tired, or when finances are tough, or other stresses. Some people would call it a battle, I can see how that would seem. but I think it is more like we are fighting life hand-in-hand.
2026-04-29 00:20:53
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pizza.bagel
rat sandwich :
my marriage is by far the easiest thing in my life
2026-04-29 15:42:15
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halles_comet
halle :
this hit home so hard. I may have to use a couple of these lines as inspiration for my vows 🥰
2026-05-02 18:13:00
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specialq75
SpecialQ75 :
If you focus on all the reasons to stick around instead of all the reasons to leave it becomes clear.
2026-04-29 01:45:55
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twelveftdeep
Amber ✨ :
my marriage is the best and easiest thing in my life
2026-04-29 16:03:23
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jewelmoonblade
Jewel :
Always love when I see you across my FYP with a new song ❤️
2026-04-28 23:36:18
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danny.hamilton
Danny Hamilton145 :
This is giving me John Denver vibes. Love it.
2026-04-29 02:54:40
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savannah_b14
Savannahhh :
I’ve been married for 7 months, it’s been the fastest, easiest 7 months. It’s flown by and it’s wild that later this year it will already be a year. I grew up watching my parents hate each other and hate their marriage ever since I was little.
2026-04-29 16:33:30
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eyegrungge
Eyegrungge :
Idk why but after "on the days we're laughing" to be followed by "so hard we cry" but I love the ups and downs represented by "and the nights we cry"
2026-04-29 00:32:47
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filthyshadesofgreen
greenie green :
I think unhealed individual issues creates struggle in a relationship. But to love through the projection war, with encouragements patients, is to love without perfection, because you know with all that push back they will bloom. And even with fallen leaves. Spring will come. And even in dead of winter, you can be the lantern of hope everyone needs to find simpler times
2026-04-30 00:39:20
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guessimanotherfan
vania :
Cryiiiing.. no. SOBBING! 🥹😭😭😭🫶 love you so much!! Esa es mi hermanaa Tessa! 🥹🙌
2026-04-29 01:02:53
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mbello_28
mbello_28 :
You always create the most beautiful love songs. If i ever get married your songs will be my wedding songs 💖
2026-04-29 02:26:29
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