Nicole P
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Wednesday 29 April 2026 01:13:29 GMT
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Roo :
I feel exactly the same. My husband always passed last March (3/21/25) and I also have been feeling guilty for getting through a day. I’m glad I’m not the only one. This Thursday would have been our 20 year anniversary…I’m struggling with that milestone vs last year when I was 6 weeks past his passing. I’m hoping it’s just cause I’m more aware this year than last year.
2026-04-29 02:56:22
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Shellhb2 :
It’s all apart of grieving & healing. You have 2 precious little guys that help you get through each day.
2026-05-05 02:36:07
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Paul :
Can totally relate, it does come in waves, when you’re having a good day, let yourself have a good day. Be glad to chat with you. Find your good Christian grief share group.
2026-06-28 06:56:38
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gman5100 :
My wife passed a year and eight months ago I feel guilty for not saving her life from cancer I have no one and some days grief takes me over it never ends
2026-05-22 11:45:36
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lynette383 :
time heals honey...humans are made that way...you will never forget him...but you'll remember him with calmness and fondness.
2026-05-01 20:07:08
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Jeffrey359 :
Nicole, you will always feel this. You are on track to healing. Its a roller coaster. I worry, as you stated, that she will think, I’m not missing her. I feel the passed ones can see the love in our hearts we had for them. Your doing fine. But with all you said, yes, I’m in the same boat. ❤️
2026-04-29 01:34:16
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louannjenson :
please, give yourself grace. I didn't know him, but I'd bet he wouldn't want you to feel guilty and he wouldn't want you to be so hard on yourself. It's perfectly fine and normal to have some normal times. it's ok!
2026-04-29 01:53:42
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Adriana MayL :
Yes, I'm right there right now, I lost my hubby only 5 months ago and I feel everything you mentioned. I was at home, but he was in bed and I was downstairs, so I feel guilty for not being there with him in bed. I cry everyday, every night and I think of him all day long. I know I've a long way to go, but I miss him sooooooo much. 💔 😔 😢 😪 😞. I'm so sorry for your family, for your kids, we had a cat, no babies, so I know it's harder for you, but at least you have 2 beautiful reasons to get up every morning. If it wasn't for my family, I don't know what or where I would be right now. I send you my most sincere condolences ! 🙏
2026-05-01 06:15:53
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Kayls :
13 months for me too, I felt anxiety guilt as well. still feel guilty now too.
2026-04-29 04:02:29
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Johna 🌻🪽🩵 :
I think this is truly valid. It’s been 7 years since my daughter passed and I feel so guilty if I don’t cry everyday, but I think this is a normal thing in this shitty thing called grief.
2026-04-29 02:05:12
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Kristina Wolf :
15 months in and I have these same feelings and thoughts. I always wonder and think about the what if's and if I could have done something different. It is normal for the pain to ease with time. The memories of them will never go away but what I have been told is the pain becomes easier to bear. You are doing amazingly in this grief process. Definitely give yourself credit!
2026-04-29 03:49:33
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lana :
my bf died 4years ago, the guilt sometimes stil popping up in my head 😌
2026-05-04 06:48:54
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Kasse Kline :
I completely understand 😌 9month with out my husband for the same reason 😇
2026-04-29 04:23:42
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Candace.under.construction :
Sending strength and positivity your way. May your husband rest in peace and may you live peacefully too.
2026-05-03 00:08:22
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Life’s Unexpected Journey :
Yes, yes and yes. At 3 1/2 years, the feeling of guilt has almost disappeared. Don’t get me wrong, I have my moments, but it has faded quite a bit.
2026-04-30 19:31:44
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🫶🏼💋Cheryl Renea🫶🏼💋 :
I lost my husband in 2011 and it gets easier as the time goes on keep ur head up and I know what ur going through I felt and still feel the same way at times
2026-04-29 01:33:04
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Sandra Garcia :
My husband passed March 29th 2025 I'm actually on an anger stage, I hate feeling this way 💔 I miss him Everyday!
2026-04-29 04:11:07
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Chad :
Thank you
2026-05-02 18:24:35
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TheGriefandGrowthExperience :
I feel like the outside world doesn’t understand that I think of my husband pretty much all day every day. I also wasn’t with my love when he died. I miss him. I’m so proud of where I am. Thanks for stating things that we all feel. ❤️3 years on 5-21
2026-05-02 05:11:58
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markbowlin2 :
Coming up on a year, and I can definitely relate 💔
2026-04-29 05:18:04
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Phil :
Wow this is deep. I think our processing happens in layers and it’s actually a sign of healing. All of them hard for our nervous system to process but hopefully lighter over time? So proud of you, friend. Keep building the mosaic. ❤️🙏🏻
2026-04-29 02:05:48
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Jen Tappen Duncan :
Yes. I’m almost 9 months in and I’m feeling this. But then I picture the things again. And some days it’s lighter and lately it’s been heavy again. I completely understand all of your guilt.
2026-04-29 01:46:47
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BobbHoo :
It is normal... and the guilt will end when you decide it ends.
2026-04-29 01:20:14
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Pam :
Hugs and loves. Totally understand what you’re explaining.
2026-04-29 02:39:40
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nanaD :
I’m a few days away from it being two years since I lost my husband unexpectedly. I still have those same feelings.
2026-04-29 01:25:05
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