I need some more examples- like I get it but also not really
2026-04-29 17:55:12
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Laura :
im so broke..wish I had a 2nd income
lol
2026-04-29 20:30:19
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Monika Castro :
So instead of saying let’s met up, I said hey I miss you today 🤷🏻♀️🤣
2026-05-05 14:13:11
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Vee ☆ :
absolutely works. The other day I texted him how bored I was at home, and he spontaneously asked if we could have lunch together that afternoon
2026-04-29 10:10:25
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Flippi_ragdoll :
I really took your advice seriously and started applying it. I liked him after the first date. I’m going on a trip, only for 4 days but still. I told him I’d love to see him once I’m back, and he immediately scheduled dinner for the day after I return (Monday).
But then we kept texting, it was super nice, and I admitted that I’d actually love to see him before my trip :p He replied again immediately and suggested lunch together tomorrow (Thursday). He’s picking me up at my place and handling all the logistics. 🫠
Mind you, he’s an extremely busy doctor working 60 hours a week, including night shifts.
Let’s see what happens, but life is too short not to express yourself when there’s nothing to lose.
2026-04-29 23:20:55
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Chloe :
For those asking for a “script,” it isn’t really YOUR feelings if you’re using someone else’s script. You also have to be open to them NOT responding to you, and if they don’t then you know they’re not very intuitive and/or might not be into you. But: “I’m craving ______,” (food suggestion) “I’ve been meaning to ________,”(watch a certain show/film, run an errand, fix something, etc.) are solid bids…
2026-04-30 01:32:24
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ur~so~upsetti~spaghetti 👹🍝 :
i don't understand how this translates
2026-04-29 09:25:05
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Ellie Mellie :
This is an example of an indirect request, which can go tremendously awry in the wrong context or with poor delivery 😅 this is a level of tact I do not have (likely due to a deep-seated fear of being misunderstood; yeah yeah I’m working on it lol)
2026-06-03 19:50:15
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ozlemni1 :
My DA ex would probably say, “Why don’t you just get yourself a glass of water instead of announcing it?” which would only make me twice as annoyed. 🐣
2026-04-29 08:46:33
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Hails** :
honest curious question. doesn't this come off as passive?
2026-04-30 00:20:14
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Fsosf :
Yea but what if there’s no offer of water from the other side? I feel like that’s the hardest part to navigate
2026-05-01 19:35:36
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Vet ej lol :
Ahhh such a good example!! Sydney you’re amazing I hope you are able to not get too affected from weird and non-understanding comments, you’re doing wonders for the rest of us ❤️✨
2026-04-29 09:32:48
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Tracy :
We need a script 😁
2026-04-29 14:44:20
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Michellearii :
So do I tell him I miss him 😂 because I do but I also don’t want to make him feel like I’m forcing him to miss me too
2026-04-29 16:05:50
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Kyranekko :
I feel like this can tip over into dry begging quite quickly
2026-07-25 21:47:59
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deadinside :
what if he doesnt want to help lol. i would feel vulnerable
2026-06-10 16:44:26
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RavenLover🐦⬛🖤 :
What if you said, I’m looking forward to meeting you. What ideas do you have planned for us? This conveys interest while allowing him to plan. Is this correct?
2026-04-29 21:55:39
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Samantha_Anna :
I can’t do this. I’d feel like I’m entitled and my ego is shot to pieces already
2026-05-01 11:59:29
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🌙 Shell 🌙 :
So can I say “I don’t care if you need a week out cause you’re busy, but please communicate that, I’m not fussed if we don’t chat for a week but you just disappearing for a week makes me feel crap”?
2026-06-25 17:16:47
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