xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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ÐIΞGO :
After the breakup, she told me she needed space but didn’t say for how long. I said yes (it’s been 2 months) but is it ok to check in and ask if she is considering a reconciliation in this time so I know what I’m giving space for? Or ask for a timeline or structure around the time & space?
2026-04-29 16:44:10
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stu_bedasso :
So I have a question, now we are long distance, and during her trip back home, she mentioned that she doesn't want to feel like she has to call me all the time, and I told her that I would be fine if she didn't, but it seems that she continues to call like regularly to fill me it on her day. at most, I'll do like a good morning selfie. On tiktok or snapchat and tell her, you know, I hope that she has a good day and you know, a good night, and throughout the day, she'll call me and talk to me and feel me in on her day. i know that she actually needs the space but I don't know if I should tell her dad, I recognize she's still continuing to do the calls and that I should probably stop the good morning, good night selfie thing. So that She actually gets her type of space, or should I just quietly stop doing the good morning?Good night thing on my end and wait for her to ask me why I stopped and then tell her why?
2026-05-07 22:52:00
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It’sa me.... Mario :
Do you ever talk about the devastation that we as the people who are being asked for space go through? Because I gotta tell ya I am utterly falling apart after 3 weeks. My life is in shambles. This does not feel like healing or peace, it seems very unfair.
2026-06-24 13:22:19
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Brian 🚪🚶♂️ :
is it normal to be scared that she might find someone else? I don’t want her to, but I don’t know I guess I’m just all over the place.
2026-04-29 15:04:57
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timagesphotoandfilm :
Wow. What a moment of clarity, finally. That makes a lot of sense. And I’ve already been really trying to let go of the grief and shock of the situation this past week but knowing that they’re also possibly dealing with seeing how I’m handling things that I already want to feel better about it is also an odd motivation to want to do better for both myself and them. And the possibility of a further future even without any guarantees
2026-06-21 23:21:03
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Jair :
Can you even say happy birthday? Feel like it’s a lose lose situation if I do it feel like I may be pushy if I don’t then seems like i don’t care (I do)
2026-04-30 12:17:28
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jennyblane :
He was asking for space and I didn’t give it because I was so afraid. Then he broke up with me because of that. It’s been on week of not talking. Our plans of moving in together I guess are now gone…he has asked that I do not contact him. I want to reach out but I know I need to respect his desire for space 😭
2026-05-19 12:04:42
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cool.cunt.corey :
We broke up 2 months ago, reconnected as friends a a month ago and had a massive argument 2.5 weeks ago. She asked for space after the argument, how long should I wait before reaching out?
2026-04-30 02:35:56
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Doonspec :
She told me she needs to be alone for a while. She needs to step back from our relationship. that's 4 weeks ago. I have respected that and will do so for a while longer. I love her so much and this is really tough to do. But she wants it so I'll go it as I've done so much for her. All I can do is be here and hope that she will come back.
2026-04-29 19:55:17
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eliesalloum22 :
We broke up 2 days ago, unadded on everything, and haven’t talked since. When do you think I should reach back out
2026-06-10 23:55:50
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Reina Nicole ❯❯❯❯❯ :
he says he needed space so I moved into our spare room. but, every night he keeps coming back to chit chat and give hugs and say goodnight. can this mean he is getting clarity and wanting to stay?
2026-05-01 15:13:49
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holistichippie :
This helps, thank you
2026-05-19 18:28:16
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Daisy Dukes :
What if they ask for space but are always going into yours ?
2026-05-15 00:40:53
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BB :
How can you implement all this whilst seperated but living together with kids?
2026-04-29 12:57:19
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Gate314159 :
I am all about space. However for the sake of children how to do that living in the same home.
2026-04-29 16:52:02
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Dwayne Buch :
what if she makes contact during the space needed time says she doesn't wanna be no contact anymore and then. few hours later goes back to no contact
2026-04-30 22:46:43
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Colorado hillbilly :
Thank you
2026-04-30 01:26:38
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will.i.am :
thank you for this
2026-04-29 18:55:10
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chris🗽 :
what if its total silence deleted off all social media and just hopeless just dont feel like going foward
2026-06-25 00:26:16
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Rusty Shackleford :
so me and my BOP broke up just a week ago. really a month ago. shes not really leaning into me and still holding the line she is moving out soon. but conversations have increased. we slept together today. she cooked for me yesterday. before sleeping with me today she said "but this is going to mess everything up" I am just all kinds of confused.
2026-05-08 20:35:31
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-29 15:34:37
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