@johndelony: One of the greatest gifts you can give someone is purpose. We’ve made life so convenient that we’ve stopped needing each other. And in the process, we’ve robbed people of feeling useful. Ask for help. Let people show up for you. That’s not a burden. That’s a gift. Delony #mentalhealthmatters #relationships #purpose #connection
This is codependency, but I get his point. I think the real lesson would be: be vulnerable.
2026-05-04 00:11:40
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Tammy Kalp :
Lyft driver here! Being able to drive many of these individuals gives me purpose. My therapist sees me way less often!
2026-05-01 10:39:02
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Jennifer Jago :
I still give neighbors sugar, eggs, vanilla and other things. you don't use instacart for that. or doordash.
2026-05-01 14:37:29
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Lolly :
I have found if you're a person who loves to give - if you never ask neither will they. That means you lose the opportunities to give. Sounds selfish but selfish in a healthy way.
2026-04-30 10:54:59
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Stacy Mehalic :
My husband died and I made myself accept help. It helped me so much physically and spiritually.
2026-04-30 01:27:36
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Coco :
I basically beg my friends to let me drive them to the airport but no one ever takes me up on it 😭
2026-05-01 22:27:54
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Janey Waney :
Or you could send someone an Uber to the airport I'd rather do that. Also, whenever my friends are home sick with a flu or something I can send them groceries or soup from their favorite restaurant with Uber eats
2026-05-01 18:20:48
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Velociraptor. :
My friends kids forgot their keys yesterday and she called me in a panic mid thunderstorm knowing I was leaving work to pick them up. I felt so freaking honored and excited to help.
2026-05-05 12:49:25
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Stephanie Beitsinger :
It’s not crazy
2026-05-23 01:58:56
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Shawn Marie Rodrigue :
I agree. Especially as a mom whose children are grown/growing up. My adult son asked me to go to the movies with him and I cried! They don’t understand how badly I want them to ask me to help!
2026-04-29 22:04:27
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🦋Shannon/Lupus Lemon🦋 :
plus that is how we used to become friends with our neighbors now if you smile at someone they look at you funny
2026-05-20 02:35:52
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Bobbie Gray :
You're the best!
2026-05-01 23:16:46
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Janey :
I agree!!!
2026-05-01 16:03:58
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Carol :
YES YES YES 💯‼️‼️‼️
2026-04-29 21:46:05
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Elwin01 :
I need help Dr John😢..
100$ will do alot for me right now. thank you and God bless
2026-04-29 14:47:57
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𐀪 :
this is exactly what i needed to hear today
2026-04-29 15:53:12
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Serendipitous :
true. 💓
2026-04-29 20:33:04
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♡+°Sammy*.★ :
nice
2026-04-29 15:53:53
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Ferrewings :
You only know what you know; if you have to navigate the impact solely on their own, they don’t have the luxury to ask for help, let alone how to ask for help.
2026-05-12 01:02:50
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Gym girl :
😁😁😁
2026-04-30 21:18:38
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D GOAT MEDIA 👑 :
Thank you for your constituency effort @Katina Trades
2026-04-29 15:44:05
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angie_black_ :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-04-30 17:50:24
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D GOAT MEDIA 👑 :
Thank you for everything @Katina Trades
2026-04-29 15:44:36
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D GOAT MEDIA 👑 :
Thanks for your transparency mrs Katina @Katina Trades
2026-04-29 15:44:08
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BHB :
😂😂😂
2026-04-30 00:18:23
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