@bennylichtenwalner: If your partner wants to leave the marriage and they runoff and they get their own place, but they never really file for the divorce or put much effort or thought into the consequences of the separation, don’t try to force things past where they’re at. You can end up turning this around if you know what to do. Has your partner started to do something like this? Comment or DM the word magnet for help.
This is exhausting and a soul crushing way to live. Continuously fighting for a relationship that they won’t fight for. You are in a one sided battle. It whittles away at your health and self confidence.
2026-04-30 12:34:55
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kumarie Karodia :
Magnet
I am going thru this now
2026-04-30 18:16:15
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Lisa Jay :
Why would i want him back after that
2026-05-01 15:44:38
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RedRoseGarden :
In North Carolina you have to live 100 💯 percent seperate for one year before a divorce
2026-04-29 22:36:17
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MorleyBear55 :
after 18 months of her wanting a separation and a divorce I ended up having to file for it.
2026-04-29 15:18:52
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Curlygirl :
He asked for divorce over 1 yr ago, didn't leave, we are roommates in seperate rooms. Can't talk to him about anything it turns into an arguement. I'm on disability and he's saying no income coming in. So, no money for lawyer/separation. I think he just wants his freedom, I want mine too. we are in limbo.
2026-04-30 22:17:47
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Nick :
I got to the point where I realized (through therapy and reflection) that I didn’t want to take her back without seeing real change in her. As such, I nudged things forward myself. It was the right choice.
2026-04-29 21:47:33
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Ash :
this was my situation exactly but the hell im going to accept that or try to "repair" it while they go do what they want. i took my own road and found a loving communicative partner.
2026-05-02 11:40:15
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Mark_A_Shields :
Please lord. Let this be final. Divorced 4 days ago. I sincerely hoe to keep it that way.
2026-04-29 20:10:22
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Akasha143 :
it would be 20 yrs in 3 days and he just left not a word. and I'm over here thinking he's my best friend. like wtf.
2026-04-29 20:17:15
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Taylor Major :
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2026-05-08 01:31:39
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Mike🇺🇸🇵🇭 :
DM me
2026-05-02 18:18:13
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polymeric Kaktus :
thank you Benny, your Videos helped me get through this. He came back after 3 month ❣️
2026-04-29 16:41:14
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Aroerick :
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2026-05-02 21:06:38
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Lore :
magnet
2026-05-03 23:09:03
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Alex_RF1992 :
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2026-05-05 03:29:32
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JC :
magnet
2026-05-02 23:21:43
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︶꒷꒦︶ 𝓉𝑜𝓁𝐵 / 𝓐𝓻𝓼𝓸𝓷 ´ཀ` :
i’m 15
2026-05-02 20:57:07
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X :
This was exactly my situation. Together 10 yrs married for 5. He cheated and then told me constantly it was all my fault that we ended and that the relationship was bad the entire time. He would say he wanted to rush the divorce but never did anything. I ended up having to file. Now he wants to fight against everything I asked for in the divorce but claims he’s happy we’re getting divorced
2026-04-30 17:38:53
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Mike Hale :
Yeah, yes, I was going through that but I need to follow. Yes, I did follow the words divorce divorce.
2026-04-30 08:51:47
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Stephy :
I’d rather be divorced
2026-05-01 22:37:53
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mom_of6 :
I had to do the divorce
2026-05-06 22:20:02
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Unicorn 521 :
Very close to my situation. He asked separation and divorce and take action move out. If I don’t say things to close him, he won’t say things about move steps for divorce, if I show any affection and closeness, he will ask steps to do the divorce action. Now I just do nothing, but not sure if the problem will resolve on its own
2026-05-10 03:24:35
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