brycem006 :
This is on my FYP as a Bf and I will say a argument is not a argument it was a Misunderstanding or a disagreement that went south from us guys not taking a second before we speak or not taking a second to think or because we “think we know” a mind is a mind but never the same thoughts, Don’t always give a solution to everything when they vent yes we are guys yes we want to fix things when they look or sounds broken or sound like a bother but instead pay attention to the way she’s talking, pay attention to her words/Emotion, the saying “if he wanted to he would” came from Us not listening even when we think we are but really the little things is what matters, The things that guys think are now “lame or weird” actually help your relationship by a lot, Check in’s on your partners mental health is a big one your partner could feel unwanted or Like your drifting away without you knowing because most are scared or don’t find the need to sit down and talk they think the “are you okay” works then it’s over but in reality thoughts can come in go and they can destroy self of steam, or cause the slightest insecurity that we miss, I am not perfect and I will never be but I know how to admit when I’m wrong and I know how to listen and sometimes that’s all it takes is to, reassure no matter how many time you have to do it, and sometimes it’s not the current partner that caused that wall to build but it’s are job to try and unpack that wall one brick at a time not use a wrecking ball because when we do it can all add up then it’s built back up again because we did not listen or take are time, Feelings,thoughts,actions Ect. Are just like wounds when your bleeding you have to stop the bleeding then you have to treat it then you have to watch it until it heals and when it does it will feel brand new and more okay, yes I am still young, No I do not know it all But I know some and I’m open to learn and we all should be, if you feel like a sit down and a conversation is needed do it or you might not get the chance to.
2026-05-27 14:40:33