@anthonypillarella: The more I work with people on their social skills, the more I realize just how much their fear of being awkward is holding people back. Then I certainly can't fault them, I felt the same way. In fact, my own progress and social skills was delayed by months if not years because I was trying so hard to optimize out any and all awkwardness from all of my interactions. But I think that's the wrong approach. because awkwardness isn't simply having "bad" social skills. It is the feeling someone gets when they realize they don't actually know what's going on or what they're supposed to do. So even though it feels like being more direct with your intentions or anxieties will just create awkwardness, it almost always removes a lot more than it adds. And I was shocked at how big of a difference this made in my social life. #socialskills #charisma #communicationskills #meetingpeople #SelfImprovement

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