@codermumslife: Kids earn screen time like adults earn 💸 New here? Follow along - I share the parenting systems that actually work in our house 👇 This is the screen time system we’ve been using for years. It started because my kids would genuinely negotiate, beg, and wear me down every single school holiday, and I needed something that would hold up without me having to repeat myself every twenty minutes. Each point on the fridge = 5 minutes of screen time. They earn points through things like reading, going outside, practice, chores - whatever fits your household. In ours, they need 24 points to unlock their weekly 120 minutes. Friday movie night doesn’t count. That’s sacred. What they’re actually learning: - that effort comes before reward, - that finishing hard things is a skill, - and that waiting for something you want is worth it. That last one takes most of us decades. They’re learning it at 6. 💬 Would you try this in your house? #screentime #kidsandscreentime #schoolholidays #parentingtips #ukworkingmoms

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rumanaa891
rumanaa :
that's a lot of task for only 1 point huh?
2026-05-01 16:23:17
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amzkaur21
Amz :
U smashed it. So simple but we ALL didn’t think of it. U did. Well done 🥰
2026-04-30 11:12:11
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amrit1525
Amrit :
I give you 100points for making this video, Thank You 🙏
2026-04-29 21:55:28
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weezul79
weezul79 :
You're brilliant! My alpha kid is not motivated by ANYTHING. He just doesnt care. I'm gen X. We did what we were told with no reward lol.
2026-04-30 19:51:36
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georgiana943
Georgiana 🦋 :
My household is simpler, we don’t own an ipad. Problem solved.
2026-05-01 21:04:35
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mossgatherer
kat :
This incentivises screen time and treats it as a reward to be sought.
2026-05-02 07:26:12
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ohames0
Oh Ames :
Mine is 10 so he does reading, music or homework (homework first) in exchange for screen time. I heard we shouldn’t make reading to get a reward but I explained it as we need to keep a balance for our brain and reading is fundamental. He still enjoys reading and does it without rewards in the evening.
2026-05-01 16:24:40
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halalcakes.co
halalcakes.co :
such a thoughtful system, im raising a screen free toddler and it’s so refreshing to see people doing this with older children too, definitely taking notes 📝🥰
2026-04-30 13:24:53
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antonia.joyfulmum
Antonia.Joyfulmum :
this is wonderful
2026-06-03 08:33:22
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drunapologeticallyme
UnapologeticallyMe.|Dr.Amanda :
And why specifically 24 points? Talk about your point allocation model please!
2026-05-01 21:36:25
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lisettekjoseph
Shi🎀 :
Play outside is a task? 😂😂😂
2026-05-02 08:26:44
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gabitera
Gabriele :
I don’t give my kids tablets, but recently used it as well very well, my 8 years old absolutely hates reading so I said that if she reads every day for 30 mins, she will have tablet Saturday and Sunday for 30 each day, it worked brilliant as she is standing with a book in her hands every day wanting to read😁
2026-05-01 15:18:37
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gracefirephoenix
GracefirePhoenix :
Thank you 🥰
2026-05-01 21:27:28
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zoe.abdur.rehman
Zoe Abdur Rehman :
it's like you've been living in my house, observing how the kids are always asking for screen time. great ideas
2026-04-29 21:59:49
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helenkingoc
Belle :
This is GENIUS 👏🏼
2026-05-01 19:45:30
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sunshine122134
Bla bla :
I do this. My eldest hates education / learning / school. This is the only way I get him to do homework / reading other than shouting. So win win
2026-04-30 22:13:04
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the.momtivator
Michelle C B | Momtivator™ :
👏👏👏 Love this
2026-05-19 22:17:09
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johanahthandie
ThandieJohanah🇧🇼🇨🇮🇿🇦 :
Beautiful
2026-05-02 10:01:54
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mamifantboss
MamifantBoss :
120 min including school work and education?
2026-05-01 09:59:35
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sandysureshot
SandySureShot :
You literally can’t do anything meaningful on an iPad for 20 minutes a week.
2026-05-01 09:19:02
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bymichellel
MichelleL 🇿🇦 🇨🇾 :
brilliant!
2026-04-30 17:23:48
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goldpopnz
Gold :
smart 💯
2026-04-30 21:53:39
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pamabiola
Pamela Abiola| Life Coach :
Very useful!
2026-04-30 13:27:42
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baiba.baiza
Baiba :
I have similar system for years. Now my issue is that they will not do chores if they do not want screen time.
2026-05-01 12:17:08
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mjcooks92
MJ 🇵🇸 :
This is amazing 👏
2026-04-30 08:14:57
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